Is he having an affair or is something else going on? My hubby works away and is only home on weekend, i have two little girls (9 yrs and an 8mth) he has been acting strange and distant for the last six months.. he has only been working away for 16 months.. before that we spoke about things, we were close etc etc. now he doesnt like talking with me, let alone discusisng and if we do. Its a very formal conversation. I have told him in tears for the past six months i feel lonely, depressed and that he seems distant, and i feel like i have so much on , on my own as i work full time too. He just says hmm hm mm .. and thats it! I have poured my heart out and begged him to tell me what is going on and he just says nothing He wont have sex with me, - keeps blaming the kids! He wont even hug me or even touch me.. so i come straight out and ask him why.. he says' its all in ur head' I know something is up.. just dont know what! His phone is hooked onto his watch.. but i have seen him delete messages from family that he doesnt want me to know.