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Do you get along with your in laws?

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Living in the past

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Is there something big that your spouse/partner doesn't know about you?

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My sister isn’t interested in my children and it breaks my heart.

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He moved on like I was nothing to him

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Sex while your asleep

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Husband wakes me up

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Partner can’t come

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I don't like my step kids.

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How would you feel if this happened to you?

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How to cope as an adult without any friends.

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I married my wife two years ago and she has an 12 year old son from a previous marriage. I have 10 year old from a previous marriage. The kids have had their differences in adjusting as my son always wanted a step brother but her son has had the hardest time accepting it all. He is now ok with me and seems to be great when its just the 3 of us but when my son comes around he is very stand offish with him, doesnt want to be in the same space as him, he is rude to him and it shows his presence bugs him. I have talked to his mom my boy has cried over how he is treated but she is more concerened as to what is going on with her son thats making him act this way which i understand to a certain degree but shouldnt certain treatment just not be allowed/tolerated? I mean it feels like if he doesnt like being there she will cater to his feelings and divorce me becasue we end up fighting to those levels about it. His dad keeps telling him we are not his family, that my son is not his brother. When my son wants nothing but to feel part of them. My heart really is hurting in this and i feel if it was my son being rude and acting this way i would have stopped him in his tracks with this behavior. I get being patient and helping them adjust best we can but no one should feel they dont like them, specially in your own home. I hate he comes home to such a tense enviornment all the time when he always looks foward to seeing them but my wife and her son just dont care to engage with him or know him in any way. I

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Should I tell my neighbours husband she is cheating on him?

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My wife started smoking. Its driving me crazy

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