Cheating - Husbands best mate's wife How do you just get over it cheating when they justify it as brotherly/sisterly love? So...long story short, my husband and his best mates wife's “friendship” got secretive and after my husband’s behaviour changed, I went investigating and found text messages. Those messages crossed a line for me. Those messages got deleted very quickly and my phone calls to her went unanswered and I was blocked on Facebook. Yes I got one response from her, it was brief and pointing out they are like brother and sister and this is acceptable behaviour to them. Now I am an advocate of male/female friendships but if you have to hide it…IT IS NO LONGER FRIENDSHIP. Am I wrong? Aren’t “I love you xxx” and “I want to be with you” in late night text messages generally reserved for an intimate relationship or is that something friends/brother/sisters do these days? So, how does one just “get over this” when they adamantly justify the secretive behaviour as “like brother and sister”? How can I let them see how this behaviour crossed a line? Everything I have tried isn’t working especially since one of them is now un-contactable.