I keep catching My 10 year old son watching porn. How do i handle this? Found history on my husbands & I bedroom pc, the family pc & sons iphone. Started when he was 9, said friend at school told him to type in Vagina, u can imagen all the porn that appeared. I was in tears the 1st time, my husband was more disapointed. I tried to explain that this wasnt reality sex he was watching-they are actors. Explained u make love or sex when u & the other person love each other when ur MUCH older. I dont want our son to think sex is dirty bc that scares me too for adulthood. The last time i found it in his phone he said mom, whats the big deal? I said its very inappropriate for a 10 yr old. Im scared when the time comes to date (14-15) his hormones may be raging so bad he will be inapropriate with the girl even if she says no. Im so scared on how to handle this the correct way. I want to make sure my child grows into a healthy man with a "normal healthy" sex life. Any comments, questions or suggestions would be so much appreciated.
We moved to an area where we don't know anyone. I became friends with a woman with five kids, desperate for some peace on weekends. I have her over every Sunday, and she brings her son, same age as mine. However, my son recently told me that he doesn't want this boy over all the time, and wants his next weekend to himself. He says he doesn't like entertaining this boy all the time. But I want her to come over because she's my friend. I don't really have any other friends here besides her. I also don't see why my son can't be more accommodating to me for one day a week. She has no choice but to bring him, because her husband has to be away on Sunday, and her teenage son refuses to baby sit.