Haemorrhoid's I have a large lump and I can see it too. I can push a bit back in but most of the time it sits outside. I tried some cream just from the chemist to shrink them but it didn't work. Does anyone know anything that would work. I do need surgery for it. My obstetrician said to wait till after I have had more kids before I get it removed or it will come back. Has anyone had it removed had more kids and it didn't return.