I was very upset the day before. Last night I couldn't sleep and at 2 am I woke him and ask if he could just hold me for a while till I fall asleep. I took a xanax and drifted off. I woke up with my husband having sex with me and I asked him what do you think you doing. I wanted you to hold me and that was it. This morning he didnt spoke to me and I asked him do you know what you did was wrong? And he replied hy saying I thought I was awake so I ask were my eyes open and did I say anything to make you think it's ok. I told him you violated me and I'm sleeping in another room. What should I do? Is it rape? Am I overreacting?