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Threesome dilemma
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Hubby and I both want a threesome. But I want another male involved, and he’ll only partake if it’s with a female. Who gets to decide? I reallly don’t want to introduce a female
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5 years ago
I reckon if he wants another woman - hire a hooker for the part. That way no emotions will be involved.
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5 years ago
I’m curious to know how common threesomes actually are? And why you’d consider one?
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5 years ago
Boredom in the bedroom I suppose. We’ve been married close to 15yrs
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5 years ago
15 yrs, not that long, get therepy.
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5 years ago
^a sex therapist???
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5 years ago
I don’t think they’re that common - I only know of one personally and that was way back in the day. The people involved were not married, at Uni and the whole thing was a hilarious disaster!
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5 years ago
Is this even a turn on?
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5 years ago
I know right?
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5 years ago
Your husband just wants to fuck another woman, you just want to try one in your vag and one in your arse.... How about you just get a dildo then let your husband have a gf.... After all, the writing is on the wall, so may as well accept it.
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5 years ago
Well said.
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5 years ago
😂😂😂😂
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5 years ago
What she said 😂
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5 years ago
Don't do either to be honest. It isn't that amazing... Want a bloke? Get a dildo.
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5 years ago
I agree with this
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5 years ago
Agree don’t do it. I did and it made everything worse
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5 years ago
Another woman who got married for the pretty dress and to be the centre of attention.
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5 years ago
Don't worry just try both then everyone is happy
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5 years ago
We are both stubborn
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5 years ago
Winning combo there
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5 years ago
Go to the sex store. Go on dates with your husband have fun together. Jump out a plane together. Introducing another person into your marriage is a receipe for disaster. Is common sense not a thing any more?
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5 years ago
Seek therapy
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5 years ago
A sex therapist?
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5 years ago
Seems unfair to one or the other and if it's an issue now and you do it it'll break you. What about another cpl?
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5 years ago
Swinger party ?
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5 years ago
Flip a coin 😘
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5 years ago
If you can’t agree at the start, it’ll only be more of an issue down the line.
Sounds like trouble to me
Sounds like trouble to me
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5 years ago
If you can’t agree then don’t do it. I think for. 3 some to work and not put a wedge in your marriage you both have to want the same and have clear cut boundaries