Husband wants me to move out because I am a nurse ...

Answered 4 years ago

I don’t work in icu but I do have to go to work at the hospital- he read about other nurses doing this I tried to explain it’s more drs and nurses treating the actual patients but he is being firm ... not sure how to deal with this already stressed

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4 years ago

I think he is using this as an excuse to get you out of the house and move toward a divorce, fucking coward piece of shit, id just go and get divorce papers drawn up and serve him.

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4 years ago

Agree

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4 years ago

I feel sad for you 😢

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4 years ago

Yes, me too sadly, so because of that id say, be smart and stand your ground, do not leave, you dont want him having the upper hand if things do go toward a divorce, make sure you get your ‘plan’ sorted and put some money away, tie up any loose ends. Men are bastards, stay strong, dont let him take what is yours.

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4 years ago

Yes, I think he wants you to go.
Clearly you are not looking after your husbands needs in this difficult time.
Perhaps you should seek some sexual counseling to overcome your issues.

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4 years ago

There is nothing to say there's any sexual issues!?!
Husband just sounds like a tosser

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4 years ago

^this

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4 years ago

😆😆😆 if he's worried about germs I doubt he wants to have sex with her.

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4 years ago

My partner is an icu doctor and we’re not doing this. It’s ridiculous and he’s been working on covid patients

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4 years ago

Same I’m a icu nurse and I haven’t moved out either and won’t be.

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4 years ago

Nor should you have too

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4 years ago

How are you doing now..?
Anything changed ...?
It might be due to stress .
My husband ( we just separated only , not divorced yet.)
He was so stressed with corona and refused his favorite son saying I can have son 100% to myself . My lawyers said wait another 2 3 wweeks to see his next action.

Exactly after 2 weeks he changed again and asking the child as previously ..
And he doesn't even remember what has happened...

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4 years ago

I’m work in pathology lab (not testing covid samples) but my husband has slept on the couch for the last 7-8 weeks “in case I infect him”. This self isolation was suggested (For him) till a brief work contact of his test results came back: negative but that was 7 weeks ago (he has been working from home since, on very reduced hours)...probably beginning of a divorce but I don’t have the mental capacity to confront it...have told him several times I’m not sick and I don’t think it’s necessary but we’ll see what happens when this is all over. Maybe he is genuinely freaked out but unable/unwilling to express this, so in the meantime I get the bed to myself 😏

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4 years ago

Well, the kid's aspect makes this different. I can understand it'll be easier to move one person out, rather than the rest of the family. Is this a new conversation for you and your husband? I ask because if it is, I find it odd that it didn't occur at the height of the pandemic hysteria, and just happening now when we're getting a bit more of a handle on the illness.

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