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Im in a big rut, majorly unmotivated. How do i get out of this funk?

Answered 4 years ago

Not working as i got made redundant last year. All my kids are in high school. I hate studying. I don't have any talents, hobbies or passions. Hubby is away a lot for work. Everyone keeps 'praising' and 'admiring' me on how i cope doing everything and saying how busy i must be. Truth is, im bored out of my brain! My life is literally washing, housework, shopping, cooking, running kids around and the occasional catch up for a cuppa with a friend etc. I need a purpose, goal, things to look forward to. I need to be busy, have structure and deadlines and time frames. I feel so 'blah'


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4 years ago
Exercise it will keep you motivated and meet some people. Meeting new people could lead to a work opportunity. You will find you will have more energy and the change of routine at home could give you ideas of what you want are interested in doing.

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4 years ago
I’m in same situation. Decided to do a short course. I hated it. I haven't studied since school so it was hard for me. I feel I got nothing out of it. I’m looking for work in that field but not really motivated because if I hated the course, surely I’ll hate the job. Oh well....sigh,,,,..

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4 years ago
Volunteer work might be just what you need. There are a lot of different things you can do and you are sure to find something that suits your lifestyle and interests.