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Don’t want my ex mother in law spending time with my son
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My ex mother in law feeds him rich Food and he is sick overnight and stays home Monday due to being tired
Can I tell my ex not to let his mum feed him
Son is 6
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5 years ago
First- Why is everyone assuming the OP is the mother not the father? I guess it is because it wasn't corrected but I assumed it was the father at first.
Yeah, talk to the other parent first and then go to the doctor if they won't listen. Why not talk to his grandparents? They don't want to make the kid sick.
Yeah, talk to the other parent first and then go to the doctor if they won't listen. Why not talk to his grandparents? They don't want to make the kid sick.
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5 years ago
I think we assumed op is mother as she referred to ex as him in last line
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5 years ago
As said above, no assumption as she stated “Can I tell my ex not to let HIS mum feed him”
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5 years ago
You a crazy bitch
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5 years ago
This woman sounds crazy
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5 years ago
You can’t control what happen in his time. That’s your fault he stays off Monday as like most other people they to make an issue and carry on about nothing.
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5 years ago
He’s feeling ill
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5 years ago
Sounds like you’re pissed with your ex or don’t want your kid going. See a psychologist sounds like munchausen syndrome by proxy
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5 years ago
Jez that's quite a leap
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5 years ago
Not really she sounds vexatious and hasn’t come back to add more info or correct anything, so guess the truth hit home.
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5 years ago
You've spent alot of time on here commenting, you seem pretty invested. What's your deal?
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5 years ago
How can you say it’s one person commenting. Most of the comments have the same opinion
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5 years ago
She might be secretly trying to make him sick
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5 years ago
If you’re talking about the Mother, I agree or completely fabricating it to have an issue or reason to fight with ex
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5 years ago
Somebody's projecting
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5 years ago
Yeah the Mother is
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5 years ago
She literally said the reason why she’s made all this up “Don’t want my ex mother in law spending time with my son”
Grow up you’re only hurting your son.
Grow up you’re only hurting your son.
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5 years ago
If he's eating it's all good. Rich foods aren't code for non vegan or non organic or something else trendy like that is it?
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5 years ago
He feels ill
It’s cooked in oil and butter
It’s cooked in oil and butter
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5 years ago
Bingo
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5 years ago
Give him a list of unacceptable food.
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5 years ago
He doesn’t have to follow it. It’s not like the kids isn’t being fed. This woman has a deeper issue than the food and if she sits down quietly and is honest with herself she will realise the food isn’t the actual problem
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5 years ago
I love how the people on here think they know everything from so little information. Is it just like a story you imagine in your head & then believe it to be so? Are you clairvoyant? How many fingers am I holding up? Is there an ending to this story? Who will win the election?
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5 years ago
Probably because most of the time its unnecessary drama caused by one party. If the kid was that sick from eating the food they would have known about it.
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5 years ago
If the kid was so sick from eating the food then why is said child only becoming ill once returning to mother and not whilst in father or grandmothers care????? Can you not see the logic some people have to cause problems
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5 years ago
Maybe they know and don't care or assume its anxiety causing it. There are many reasons why but only the mother and father know what is really going on. If the child is genuinely ill then she should be taking the child to the doctor who can do testing to find out if the child has an allergy to the foods or sensitivity. common sense really would be to take the child to the doctor and explain hat is happening and what is eaten. could be a milk allergy, gluten or wheat intolerance sometimes it takes 3 hours or 24 hours to show up if its food poisoning. Food Handling of course.
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5 years ago
He is fed food cooked in oil or butter
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5 years ago
He’s vomiting
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5 years ago
Take him to the doctor. They will do full health check.
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5 years ago
munchausen syndrome by proxy
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5 years ago
Doctor will test for allergies, blood tests, poop tests etc.
My daughter would vomit at school and get sent home, but it went from a weekly thing to a daily thing. Turns out was anxiety
My daughter would vomit at school and get sent home, but it went from a weekly thing to a daily thing. Turns out was anxiety
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5 years ago
Maybe he is over indulging himself, which in turns makes himself sick. And he is overtired probably because they are allowing him to stay up later than usual. My mother-in-law always gave my kids too much sugar food like lollies, chocolate, cakes etc. It wasn't what she was giving them, it was the amount, way too much. I think he might be playing up a bit about going to school, he is overtired, so doesn't want to go. You are giving in to him, make him get up and go. If he is still ill at school they will ring you. Maybe say that you have taken him to the Drs and he/she has advised in lowering his sugar intake so ask nicely if they would bring down the rich food that he has. Say that he can have a bit, but not as much as he is having. If you go with instructions, don't give him any, I can assure you, they will give him more. Nan's are allowed to spoil their grand children, it's their job. Just try to let them know not to over do it.
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5 years ago
If he food is making the child ill then yes you can mention it to the father and tell him to not let the boy eat the food which upset their stomach. following this you need to actively get a doctor to see the child and document each time the child comes home ill to back up your theory. You cant restrict her from seeing the child however you can ask that they keep a bland diet and refrain from feeding your child what ever makes them sick.
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5 years ago
Some people need to realise they have a problem not everyone else.