🙌🙌 sane here

^same

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I did the same a few years ago and my life is for the first time and finally peaceful - so glad I made the decision

Just curious and genuinely asking what could be so bad that makes you never want to see or talk to your own mother ever again. I get maybe creating distance/boundaries but complete shut off? Why?

I am the replier to the above answer, honestly my reasons were simply I had finally gotten tired of being abused. I come from an abusive family and I was fostered for many years. My mother continued to be manipulative and abusive well into my 30s until I finally realised she could never be the mother I needed and that I deserved better. I wish her well but now me and my hubby and kids are safe I finally sleep well at night

Im the op of this reply, similar to what the other person has said, my mother has abused me most of my life and amoungst other things left me in the UK aged 14 and allowed me to enter a relationship with a 30 year old man when i was 15. I have tried over the years to maintain a relationship with her and even forgive her, but she continues to abuse me and my siblings. She has actually turned her back on me this last time and it’s fab! I am free without her, and i wont be allowing her back in..

Person who asked this question: I’m terribly sorry ladies for what you’ve gone through. I can’t begin to imagine the stress and hurt you’ve both endured. Thank you for explaining, wish you both the best xx definitely a reminder that I should never take my loving and selfless mother for granted!

❤️ yes, cherish her 😊