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Reading dirty little secrets it's scary to read so many cheat in their marriages! My husband works away and I'm so scare

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Reading dirty little secrets it's scary to read so many cheat in their marriages! My husband works away and I'm so scared that he cheats on me does anyone eles get worried reading the secrets page?


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4 years ago
I’m a bored housewife who messing around with a co worker much older than me. He’s got charisma from every pore. We’ve not fucked yet but I wanna do bad!
No idea why, I’m just drawn to him & he says, him to me.

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4 years ago
It's just horny house wives living out their fantasy in writing. Most are probably flicking the bean whilst they type it.

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4 years ago
^How many stories have you added to it??

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4 years ago
Sounds messy

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4 years ago
I work in the adult industry and I can tell you everyone is doing it. Men are so sneaky

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4 years ago
But you are only seeing a preselected group not the whole population. That's like a marriage counsellor saying everyone's marriage is in trouble.... there's a whole lot of men you don't see because of the nature of your job.

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4 years ago
Do you have to pay in cash or do the men use their cards? I can check his bank account mabey?

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4 years ago
^if they pay by credit card it doesn't come up as Sam's brothel or anything like that. It's a legit sounding business name. If you don't recognize it then investigate. Often though if you were to ring the number associated with that transaction and it's not ligament, they have special lines dedicated to curious wives ringing and checking what kind of business it is. They may say it's a gym or BCF. Something that you wouldn't question. Good luck babe x

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4 years ago
Op here Thankyou so much ladies for your kind words and support you all have made me feel better 😊

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4 years ago
Pretty much no one is going to confess as a dls that their marriage is perfectly happy and going strong. So you are only seeing the ones who are cheating. Like how people are more likely to leave a review about something if their experience was negative. I've been happily married for almost 8 years, together for another 10 on top of that. If he's not giving you a reason to worry, don't stress.

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4 years ago
Girl, relax. I wrote some of the old OLD dls posts about cheating, (even though I most certainly was not) just to spice things up there. Sometimes just to see if the page was still active (sometimes it doesn't update for a week at a time). As someone else said it's mostly just shitposting by bored housewives (I was bored at the time, shit I still am I just don't post that stuff no more).
There are only so many "my husband is a dick", "I farted in woolies", "one time I accidentally sent nudes to the wrong person" posts to go up. Plus, as societal values change, peoples dirty little secrets become irrelevant. Eg, it would no longer be considered a shameful secret if you're secretly lusting after another woman. These days people would just nod and say okay fair enough. So there's less and less things to post about there. Which means more shitposts get approved, so that SAHM can still feel relevant and part of modern society.

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4 years ago
My husband could also get away with it if he choose he works 12hr days, has a company car, and work phone that I don’t touch. I would drive myself crazy if I were to worry about it. I really think ignorance is bliss. If you really want to know start investigating, don’t bring it up with him though otherwise he will hide everything.

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4 years ago
I wouldn't worry. Half the stories are probably fantasies

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4 years ago
Some people are just dishonest and not trustworthy.
I'm sure if you thought about your husband cheating there would be red flags not just him working away.
When I have thought people have cheated on me, it's because their behaviour was different and there were clear signs that they were doing something suspicious!

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4 years ago
I think one posted multiple times... don’t worry yourself if there is no indication he is cheating. Not everyone is like that - I’ve never cheated in 18 years and pretty confident my husband hasn’t either. Bring on the nasty troll now....

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4 years ago
Ahh thankyou for your response that helps me🙂

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4 years ago
Same 21 years, we’ve had issues but it wasn’t cheating.