OP, how would you honestly feel if you were the new wife, and your new husband was banging his ex to knock her up, especially without your okay on the matter? Doing it all behind your back, looking for creative ways to lie to you about it...

Omg OP. Can you hear yourself. Is this post for real??

Well your ex hubby has to jerk off into a turkey baster. Once he has then you shove it up your clunge and release all the little babies.

And how many times are you planning on having sex with someone elses husband before you conceive 😳
Ridiculous idea. Find yourself a new baby daddy. If you and your ex wanted more kids “together” then you should’ve stayed together.
Family units are not traditional anymore. I have a school friend with 5 kids, 3 different dads. She aint no hoe that’s just how life worked out for her. They’re all still brothers and sisters regardless of the dad situation. I’m assuming current wife isn’t an air head, there’s more to IVF than a cover up story. It’s kind of like saying your pregnant but stuffing a pillow under your shirt and faking the symptoms.

My husband physically can’t have children so should I just lie to him and fuck my ex?
I’m not stating you are a bad person because I don’t know you from a bar of soap.. but fuck me this is a horrible idea.
Do you understand how easy and non expensive it is to just get your ex husbands sperm and I pregnant yourself without putting his cock inside you..? You both obvisouly want to have sex with each other.. you getting pregnant is just a bonus for you.
Don’t even say “no I don’t want to have sex with him I just want a baby” cut the shit you can easily do it without sitting on his cock and if you don’t think that then you are dumb as all fuck.

Hey OP, did you notice the hashtags on your question? Even the SAHM bot thinks this is a betrayal.

Great...another breeder my hard earned tax dollars will go too 😠😠

Not that it is any of you busy body judgemental bitches business but my ex husband and I have decided to try out the syringe method mentioned above. All of you defending his wife don’t know the half of it. She had an affair with my husband before we got divorced got prenangt while having the affair and had an abortion and told her ex husband she had a miscarriage. She isn’t the saint you all want to believe she is

Sex with an ex? You're playing with fire and do you really want to be a part of what is technically an affair on his part??

Why did you get divorced if you still want to have sex and raise kids together?

Go for it. You were married to him first. She was an afterthought. You have history and your child needs a sibling. Good luck, I hope you get pregnant fast xx

Can you just imagine this post next year:

'My husband has fathered a child with his ex-wife behind my back. I feel so betrayed, I don't know what to do. Does he still love her? Should I leave him? How can I ever trust him again?'

Now OP, think of what you would write in response to that. Because that is why this is a horrible, selfish idea.

Now look deeper and think of how you will explain it to your child when they're older:

'Well honey, I wanted another child and even though I had no partner I thought it was a good idea to have one with your dad, even though he was married to someone else. Yes, it cost them their marriage, and yes, it was an awkward situation with your dad after that, and yes, your siblings do blame your birth for how devastated their father was after the second divorce. I'm not sure why he did it - but probably because he is an irresponsible man with no moral compass who is really easy to manipulate when motivated by sex. So basically, all of these current problems are because he's awful and I wanted another child and I didn't care who I hurt to get one.'

Find a partner, use a sperm donor, put eggs on ice, buy a puppy - but don't follow this hideous idea.

I get wanting to have the same dad for your kids...but you have to be smart about it. Will he have contact wirh them? Will he be financially responsible for them? How will you support another child as a single parent? As far as the conception goes...he can deposit fresh sperm into a cup and you can turkey baste or syringe it when you are ovulating. Just as effective as sex and all you need is a syringe for a dollar from the chemist. U can even use the samr one for each try. You say its like a business arrangement, but the only arrangements you have made is to have sex with your ex. Sounds like excuses to me. Be smart!

This is wrong. If my husband did this I would be concerned I might kill him let alone leave him. What a low act for both if you to consider. Artificial insemination is still not good enough. That is also betraying his WIFE that neither of u seem to give a shit about. And I think he just wants his cake and eat it too but by cake I mean your love muffin. Haven't you ever heard of a sperm donor? That is your option right now. Why do u even need another baby if u have 3? Is it because your youngest is approaching 8 years old and u will be taken off parenting payment and expected to work?

Ask wife for a three sum and get knocked up

Okay, so this is a shit idea. I have a lot of negative thoughts about this, but I'm trying to keep them in (because most people have already summed up how vile this is).

But, if you're serious, why not say the conception is from a one night stand, but that he wants to support the baby financially because it's his childs sibling and he feels like its the right thing to do.

Still trying not to be a bitch, but, have you thought about whether he has any ulterior motives here. Maybe he has contracted herpes since the split and wants to pass them on to you. Maybe he intends to take no responsibility for this child. Maybe he just wants to see his new wife punch you in the face for suggesting this arrangement at all.
Just something to think about.

If he can be a 100% father to the child and if you can raise it without hurting his partners feelings or receiving income support from centerlink then sure, go ahead. If not, then don't.

I think it's a pretty stupid idea. Why are you divorced from him? If you're still so keen you could not only have sex with him but want his baby too? And I think the reason you're getting so much hate on here is the lying you and your "ex" are planning on doing. Nevermind if she says no. If I'd married a man who turns around one day announcing he wants to help his ex get pregnant for no good reason I'd be so shocked and disappointed. He sounds like he's still into you. It's not like he's doing it because you have no kids. There's just no logical reason.

I bet they are already fucking

wouldn’t your husband rather have a child with his current wife, rather than having to pay more child support to a child with his ex wife? It makes no sense.

What does make sense is he wants to cheat on his wife with you.