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I don't ever "feel like it", but I try to make sure I have sex with my husband once a week. I think just because I don't want it ever, he shouldn't miss out all together. If it was up to him, we'd do it every day, so I feel like this is meeting in the middle. I don't tell him him that I'm never in the mood and would be happy to never have sex again, because I'm sure that would be a big turn off, and he wouldn't be happy just having sex "to get it over with". I pretend I'm into it and by the end I usually am (hubby does try very hard and always wants me to
Cum before he does, so that helps). Maybe fake it until you make it? Lots of lube helps!
Maths not your strong point.
I like sex when we have it but I don't ever feel like it.
My hubby would never put up with that sort of behaviour. Makes me horny just thinking of the respect I have for him.
You should ask him what he dreams of in the shower while milking himself.
Hint: It's not you.
You are the unexciting boring ones. Your way of thinking is old news now. Embrace the new program and enjoy. #NEWFEM.
I love sex. Id have it everyday if we could but husband is a twice a weeker person these days. I honestly could not live in a sexless marriage.
Yeah you need a lot more to maintain a relationship. We are best friends but thr part that brings us from being best friends to husband and wife is sex.
I am in the same boat. I am a Mum of 4 constantly busy busy and running around and tired. He doesnt help with anything to do with the house or kids.
He works shift work. We have become ships that pass in the night. So we have become distant. So no sex. I am way too scared to fall pregnant again even with contraception. I know mentally I wouldnt be able to cope. I have never enjoyed sex with him so it is easier to just not partake or encourage him. We have lived in a sexless marriage for 10 years.
I didnt feel like sex when breastfeeding - its the hormones. once i stopped feeding I was interested again. Are you pg or bf?
HAHA I am single and feel that way so I think I am the most abnormal. Been single for so long, and just tired of random hook ups etc. and then longer time passed, I realise I don't feel desperate for it. Occasionally can look after myself, but yeah it's certainly not on my mind constantly. I'm now so scared of dating / relationships etc. as I feel as though it will most likely start off great, but end up with me feeling this way and feeling 'obligated'..so then I feel like...why bother? But desperately want to be a Mum and have a family / companion etc.
I would be happy to never have sex again. I see it as a chore. As soon as he climaxes it is all over so I just concentrate on getting him off. It is has been months since I have climaxed and I am at the stage where I don't care.
I’m in the same boat. We have sex once a month at most and when we do it I just want it over with. We have definitely lost our spark. And I never ever feel sexy. Husband never tells me or Shows me he thinks I am either.
In saying that, every other part of our marriage is fine. But my post kid self feels, well asexual. I absolutely hate having m breasts touched, have husband touch me down there. I’ve talked to hubby, I’m very open about it all. But I don’t know what to do, he does t know what to do so we do nothing.