What have I got to do to get regular sex?
Answered 4 months ago
Hoping for some advice from the ladies. My wife is intimate with me once maybe twice a month. I have a fairly high sex drive.
We have two young kids and she’s always too tired. It’s great when we do but I need more. I cook most nights clean do the night wake ups with our young child.
I’ve brought it up a few times but always turns into an argument
Have an answer?
I’m terrible, my libido is dead. I feel bad for not wanting sex with my husband, who is great with direction around the house, with the kids and work etc.
but I just am not interested like I was years ago.
It sucks. Sorry I’m no help
It's advice. Take it or not. It's how it is in my house. My H thinks he does half too, but leaves the entire mental load to me so I'm not inclined to care about his physical needs.
After being touched, grabbed and attention demanded by kids all day, a husband wanting his sex needs be met like just having another child. Not very sexy.
If your wife feels you are a partner in the family & doesn't have the mental drain & resentment of having to think about everything, all the time, on her own, you might be surprised what happens. Although that's not a guarantee & you can't expect her to match your sex drive, feeling equal & respected goes a lonnngggg way.