What do you do with your partner?
Answered 5 months ago
My husband and I have been together for 20 years. We are boring and don’t do anything together except watch tv.
My husband seems to only interact with me or the kids if it’s something he likes to do. Eg cooks with the kids, video games etc. however will not initiate any activity the kids or I like to do. He will begrudgingly join in if guilted into playing but rushes off as soon as he can. (To do his own thing)
Am I just being a whinger? Is that normal?
He is very happy to be in his own, probably prefers it. We have talked about this many times. It he just doesn’t seem interested or keen
Have an answer?
I hardly do anything with my husband, we even watch tv in separate rooms most nights. But we do plan activities together and go out and do things whenever we can. For eg. The circus is in town next week so we’re planning to take the kids for an afternoon out.