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Definately confront her. And never leave your kids in her care again.
I wouldn’t confront her, i simply wouldn’t ask her to babysit again.
Assuming you paid her she might offer again, my reply would be ... your play date choice didn’t sound ideal for the kids considering it sounded like you either got really stoned or had half a packet of after sex ciggies, tye kids told me a heap of smoke came out of the room you and your ‘friend’ came out of.
Did she know coke was off limited, tonnes of kids drink the shit, not that I agree with it.
I would be more concerned if she drove home stoned? If she was driving I would consider having my two cents worth about that
Omg. This is almost reportable
Is your husband serious? If mine said that, he'd know about it!
Out of curiosity, was she paid (not that that has any bearing on the situation or whether or not it was acceptable)?
I would confront her and tear absolute shreds off of her. What if something awful happened to your kids when they should have been safe at home with their babysitter?
You realise there is a strong likely hood that it wasn't a joint either. It was quite likely crack/meth they were smoking if they were in a room for a while and smoke came out. And regardless of whether it was ciggerettes, weed or crack, what a stupid thing to say. If that were my kids and I heard that, I would be going ape shit. I would not allow my precious babies to be exposed to that crap. If you even consider allowing her to babysit again, just to keep the peace that is stupid. And your husband's reaction is a joke does he not care what your kids are exposed to?
You need to talk to her and find out what happened. Make sure other family members know incase they ask her to babysit.
I would never let her babysit again! A total stranger he could have done anything to them. She's not babysitting for goodness sake she had nothyto do with the instead visits some random dude, abandoning them for sex & a joint. No no no no.
Confront her. I wouldn't let her look after the kids again. They don't need to be around that. You paid her to watch your kids, no shove them in front of a Tv so she can go and so drugs with a guy.