Feeling helpless
Answered 3 years ago
I’ve been feeling this way for a while now, over a year, and I’m just not sure what to do anymore.
I honestly feel trapped in my marriage. I feel like I’ve made a mistake in getting married because now it’s even harder to leave. I’m so unhappy, and it’s because of him, I feel like he’s completely drained me. I feel like can’t be myself around him. I never really have been.
I’m realizing now just how different we actually are. We’ve been together 12 years, maybe I was blinded or just didn’t allow myself to see it. Every time I bring up how unhappy I’ve been he gets defensive and guilts me into apologizing.
I’ve got no idea what to do, where to go, I feel like I’m only staying because of the kids,
I can’t just leave we have 3 kids, even if I did leave, where can I go? I have next to no family support.