Is it wrong to desire attention from opposite sex if married when spouse never makes you feel desired?
Answered 1 year ago
I love my spouse i would never cheat on them, i dont want to be single. Maybe its a middle age crisis or something idk. Just feels nice to be noticed even tho it doesn't really happen, i have no friends, i am not allowed to have alone interactions/friends of the opposite sex since its a tight very protective marriage between us. we both agreed on this as it can be dangerous. So i am not complaining about it. But the lack of being able to have the slightest interaction with women without my spouse getting jealous and turning into a big fight is starting to make me feel like i cant be myself around people. Then i desire attention from opposite sex as my spouse hardly ever lets me know i am a desirable person.
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I personally think your whole situation is bizarre.
Not allowed friends, is controlling. But you needing attention, what's going on in your life that you are not happy with yourself and need other people to make you feel good about yourself?
So much to unpack right there