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I just lost my cool would you have also ?

So today son came to visit with girlfriend they brought iced donuts so they place them on the table I have 2young kids plus baby sitting grandchild they all ask for a donuts and get told no not until the sons girlfriend says so so I have 3 crying kids expected to wait until she's ready to share I lost it told her to get the hell out son said she likes to have control and I've over reacted

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I would have just given them to the kids.

 They aren’t your donuts
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 It's my house.
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 SO you can help yourself to other people’s belongings in your house? Go through their bag if you want because it’s your house? Your reasoning is off.
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 Don’t be an idiot. Of course she’s not going to check bags you moron. Stop making it into something else drama queen.
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 ^ I guess you missed my sarcasm. And the point.
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 It wasn’t sarcastic, it was just a dumb analogy.
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 It wasn’t dumb. You or whoever said ‘it’s my house’. So does that mean it’s ok for you to go through a visitors handbag? If not, why is it ok to eat doughnuts you didn’t buy or were not given to you?
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Wow. Can’t wait for her to give you a gift for a special occasion like xmas... don’t forget to wait until you are told you can use it. 😀