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Chemistry or a deep connection with a guy at work We are both business partners Same age Im married with two kids He ha

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Chemistry or a deep connection with a guy at work

We are both business partners
Same age
Im married with two kids
He has a gf for 6 years

We both have a connection and chemistry but are being professional

How do u get past this?

He deeply cares for me and vice versa
We never discuss personal lives.. only talk about work or have a laugh etc. When i am sick he is very caring towards me. Never asks about my family though.
My girls are 8, and 6
I think of him a lot, but know its not the right thing.
Hubby and i have become more like room mates for the past 3 years.

I wont act on it and keep shit professional, but just wondered if anyone had been in this situation and how you moved past it


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4 years ago
If you decide to break up your marriage don’t do it because of a third party. Get some distance between you and your business partner and trial a separation with your husband. I think the worst thing is going from one relationship to the next.

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4 years ago
Don't do it. Don't shit where you eat. It will end in tears.

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4 years ago
Spot on!!!

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4 years ago
Pfft, deep connection with a guy that you don't discuss anything personal with...that's physical attraction not a deep connection!!! Work on your marriage before you throw it all away on something that isn't even real.

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4 years ago
Sorry babe but if you have This chemistry with someone other than hubby then maybe you need to reevaluate your marriage.

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4 years ago
Agreed I’m in a similar situation and we’ve left our partners for each other now couldn’t be happier

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4 years ago
Was it hard to leave?

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4 years ago
Absolutely but sometimes you have to do what is best without hurting anyone

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4 years ago
Definitely need to re-evaluate your relationship with your husband. He could be just a caring person from the sounds of it, I feel like if he was interested in you he would be curious about your family maybe?

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4 years ago
He’s playing with you