How are you op? I hope it all went well for you ❤️❤️❤️

I got pregnant last year, 15 years between kids, was not planned. i was devastated and resentful my whole pregnancy, i kept thinking "should have had an abortion". My anxiety was thru the roof, id wake up and couldn't breathe and felt like i was drowning every night. I was so detached to the pregnancy i thought it was a huge mistake and id hate the baby and not form a bond and end up with this ramen, unloved kid with trauma attachment issues, and i thought my life was over and that I'd ruined my others kids lives!
But OMG i was so wrong! This beautiful little person is perfect and i have so much love for them and my life feels so complete and the other kids love the baby so much! In my personal situation, it was so right to have this little baby ♥ and they are so loved and wanted ♥

No one has the right to judge this woman or any choice she makes about her body and life. Pregnancy is a wonderful experience but it can also cause a lot of mental, emotional and physical concerns and complications. Not everyone has the wonderful pregnancy that we all expect to have. That is okay, everyone is different and reacts differently to being pregnant. Whilst I am desperately trying for another child I would never judge someone elses choices for their life.

I wish you OP all the best in your decision making.

I think you have a few different issues, you need to sit down, think about them all and decide if each is a problem - eg is money a problem, is it a problem that you haven't known your partner long enough, is age a problem, is finances a problem etc. Think honestly about each thing. I will say that I know heaps of people who have had kids in their 40s perfectly healthy, so age doesn't have to be a problem if it isn't a problem for you.

I'm not in your position, but in all honesty if I ever get pregnant again we won't be going through with it. I feel our life is good with our two kids, and think mentally I wouldn't handle it very well either. Mind you in our almost 20 years together we've only ever got pregnant when trying to, so hopefully will never be an issue.

I'm sure all of these nasty women would crack the shits if someone was bullying their child, so why do they think it's ok to do it to someone else? Comments like those can really mess people up. Disgusting behaviour from "adults".
OP- you do whatever feels right for you and your family. Whatever decision you make I'm sure will be the right one for your family! Sending you love xx

honestly , I do think that the others wouldn't resent their new sibling if you choose to go ahead. But its your decision. I havent heard of someone getting pregnant so far after her partner had the snip. A few weeks maybe but wow. Id have words with whoever did the procedure lol.

My husband has had the snip and this my worst nightmare- having said you are in a new relationship so it could be an exciting adventure for you.

Meant to be! Whoo hoo! Congratulations ❤️

Alot will say "it's meant to be" or what not. But if you have doubts I would suggest you both speak to a professional asap so you have options.
My hubby is getting the snip soon so cannot ask, did you do the follow up semen test? To make sure it was all good? This has scared me haha. Good luck xx

Good luck with whatever you decide, times are tough already. I completely understand not wanting to do it all again, i have a 3 yo and a 5 yo and i sure as hell will be happy to get through the toddler stage! Best wishes xx

You can get counselling if you are considering ending the pregnancy. If you are in Queensland you can call children by choice and have access to their counsellors. The website also has a lot of handy information about making a decision. If you aren’t your state might have a similar service. Just remember no matter what you choose it will affect your life.

Hi OP. I have no suggestions... but whatever decision you make, all the best x