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Depends what your interests are and age of your kids. Board games, puzzles, reading, knitting/crochet, craft, beading/jewellery making, baking, learn an instrument together. Or more outdoorsy and active like family bike rides, hiking, regular beach trips (on weekends when hubby’s home to help out). For me a wholesome family/home isn’t so much about the activities but more about how each family member speaks to and treats other family members, being respectful, kind, generous etc.

I get it. We are making s’mores over our fire pit tonight because they get mentioned in American shows and my daughter wanted to try them (google tells me digestive biscuits are a good substitute for graham crackers here).
My daughter wanted to learn to knit so we’ve been doing that too. We’ve been baking bread and making pasta from scratch. I’ve taught the children some easy recipes.
Reading together is always nice.
Turning off the tv is good too - but we have loved LEGO masters and we even got the LEGO out. But we’ve also enjoyed some board games and swapped jigsaw puzzles with the neighbours.
Writing letters to older friends and relatives has been nice - even ordered some photos to be printed online.
It’s nice to be together at the moment, even if it’s for an awful reason.

I don’t quite understand this question and I’d actually really like to know more! Would making traditions help? Like a board game night or a particular receipe each week on a day?

I don’t know, a comfortable happy place that everyone who lives there wants to spend time at.