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Do you squirt when you cum? I'm honestly interested in how many women really do? Can all women squirt?


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Nope. I think it's pretty vulgar to be honest. I orgasmed every time, often more than once, but have never squirmed. Yuck.

 It's not something you can control or force.
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I do but only sometimes and its not something i can control or force to happen

It's actually been scientifically proven that when a woman squirts, it is just urine. So, if you want to be a squirter, just empty your bladder!

 I read this somewhere. I think it's hilarious how proud some women are to just urinate during sex thinking it's something special.
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 Thats actually a fake study and is totally untrue
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 The fluid that’s released during squirting is essentially watered-down urine, sometimes with a bit of ejaculate in it. It comes from the bladder and exits via the urethra, the same as when you pee. This was a study conducted by Doctors in the USA.
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I'm 38 and only have three times. All this year.

 How did you work it out, if you get what I mean. At that age? At 32 I figure I’d never be able to, but kind of hope to find a way
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 Different responder here. For me, it's a gspot stimulated orgasm. It feels like pressure & you are going to urinate, but it's not urine. Relax & go with it. It can be a little or a lot. Your ability to urinate is switched off during orgasm.
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All the people saying its gross are obviously jealous that they've never experienced it before

 I'm sooooo not jealous πŸ˜†πŸ˜†πŸ˜†
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I do, when I am really turned on and have come a few times already, esp when my girlfriend hits my G spot and my clit at the same time. It's an amazing feeling. Bit messy, but amazing.

Yes, not with all if my partners but with some. It was confronting to start with but something you learn to embrace. It's not urine as someone above suggested, just a build up of thin mucus that emplodes.

 Same here he loves it. It is not urine it's fanny juice. πŸ€—
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 Fanny juice πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
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 Like a fanny fart that's projected?
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 Haha nope sorry ladies they did a study and tested the fluid, definitely has some discharge/'fanny juice' IN it but the major component is urine.
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Yes but only found out beginning of the year at 38! A guy I was seeing just fingered me really full on and πŸ’¦πŸ’¦ I can do it with sex now too that I know the feeling

Not all women can/do. My husband told me he was confused about this as a teenager, because his sex ed pretty much came from porn, so he thought all women could and if they didn't it was cos they weren't cumming hard enough. His first girlfriend apparently cleared up that misconception haha.

I do and it's only something that I have recently been able to do ( last 12 months or so) and I can only squirt when my husband fingers me.

 How did you figure it out?
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I have never squirted per se, but I do get really really wet.