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Answered 4 years ago
Is it ok for your partner who you have two kids with to hang out with a man who is in a relationship with a woman whom your partner was fucking while you were giving birth to his first child? Further your partner has an amazing relationship with the child of the fuckee and ‘mate/man’ which he cultivated during the time he abandoned his baby and partner, but struggles with his own kids.... Opinions please...
And for context, it is complicated but we do genuinely love each other.
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4 years ago
Im the op and my heart is so broken i just want to die.
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4 years ago
Please don’t ever let a man make you feel like that. You are worth way more than that. I’m sorry but it’s not ok he really should not be hanging around her after what he did esp while u were in labor. Please surround yourself with your family and friends who love you and who will prop you up not make you feel down about yourself
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4 years ago
Thank you for taking the time to care for me.
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4 years ago
Xxxx
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4 years ago
I agree with the response here please leave this “situation” you are in. You need girlfriends and family support, people who love you. You and your child deserve better.
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4 years ago
What?
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4 years ago
I read that question 4 times and I’m still confused.
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4 years ago
Yeah me too but I understand enough of it to say it is definitely NOT ok and I don't see how you can love someone and do that too them
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4 years ago
There is OP + Partner
Partner screwed LadyX while OP was giving birth.
Partner is now friends with LadyX's partner ManX.
Partner also gets on with LadyX's child.
From my understanding 🤔
Partner screwed LadyX while OP was giving birth.
Partner is now friends with LadyX's partner ManX.
Partner also gets on with LadyX's child.
From my understanding 🤔
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4 years ago
I wonder if partner is the father of LadyX's child?
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4 years ago
How did partner even become friends with lady x partner. Just a no go zone right there
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4 years ago
Sure, if you like being used and treated like a worthless doormat to a repulsive excuse for a pig of a man, it's fine.
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4 years ago
Not ok .
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4 years ago
I’m trying to get past the fucking someone else while you are giving birth. Girl, leave his ass and find yourself someone who loves and respects you, or be alone and love and respect yourself. You deserve better than this bullshit.
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4 years ago
Big warning signs.
My ex started playing around when I was pregnant with our first. It got worse, so we were separated by the time the baby was 6 months old.
I sensed that he did not respect me.
Very glad I got out of the relationship when I did, and never looked back.
My ex started playing around when I was pregnant with our first. It got worse, so we were separated by the time the baby was 6 months old.
I sensed that he did not respect me.
Very glad I got out of the relationship when I did, and never looked back.
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4 years ago
Holy shit i feel like you need to draw a diagram. I would have to say no it's weird.... it's all weird.
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4 years ago
Its not, he doesen't respect you. I would leave.
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4 years ago
I would not be ok with that. What kind of man fucks someone else while his wife is giving birth to his child. And then spends time with her partner and their kids? Is he spending time with her too? He clearly does not respect you at all. I’d question if he even loves you, based on that.