There’s no point saying join a sporting team or other club if you have no-one to look after the kids so you can go. Get a part time job and put kids in after school care- you won’t be as bored when you are busy, plus you have the social aspect of work. On one of the days you don’t work, make it your shopping day to leave weekends for fun stuff you and the kids can do -like make it a tradition that every Sunday (unless there is something else planned) you go for family bike ride or swim etc, or make a point to meet up with cousins or grandparents etc. On one of the other days you don’t work (Assuming your part time job would be three days or less) make it your pamper day (one day of the month get hair done (might just be wash and blow dry if you don’t get colour etc) one day of month get massage, once a fortnight get nails done) and catch up with someone for coffee (could be a friend or your Mum etc). Hope some of this is helpful!

What have you been doing so far to beat boredom?

Study, work, talk on the phone to him and video call, read, garden, do house work

I joined a social indoor netball team, was part of an online book club, did lots of cooking, used adult colouring in books, did puzzles, did word puzzles, phoned family/ friends, read, painted my nails, gave myself a facial, watched chick flicks, had a bath, home workouts (mainly dancing videos), clean.

Phone sex. Masturbation. Lots of phone time/messenger. (Just get some good toys).

Talking and texting everyday. Send I love yous at random times. Checking In.

Telling him when you're getting horny. It might be good for both of you. Release some tension together. send him some nudes if you trust him. Be creative