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My husband would love to go to a strip club. I told him I don't mind as long as he doesn't mind me going to see male strippers. That changed his mind on it cause he doesn't want me to see male strippers lol. I knew that would be his answer and I'm glad because personally I don't agree with strip clubs when you're in a relationship
He doesn't need my permission. He's not a child and I'm not his mother. But if you're asking would I have an issue with it, no I wouldn't.
I don't get why you think it's OK for your man to lust over another woman? A dumb woman once told me that she doesn't care where he gets his appetite from as long as he comes home to eat.
That is just sick. You want to stare at other women's bodies and fantasise about them? You're in your own. Lucky for me my husband is my King andi am his queen so why would he want to stare at another woman
I can't stand the saying "doesn't matter where he gets his appetite from as long as he comes home to eat". I've heard it a few times.
I do have a problem with it. If you wouldn't want your daughter to become a stripper then don't support the exploitation of women for money by going along. I get that a lot of the women 'enjoy' doing it and feel empowered because they earn enough cash to do what they want to do but ultimately they often see the worst side of male behaviour and must lose some faith in men/relationships.
No. So he can fantasise about her while sleeping with me?
No its not ok. I've given him 2 beautiful children, I have treated this man like a god devoting every day to his happiness, for f#ck sake I wake at 4am to make him french toast or a strawberry shake for breakfast and lay his uniform out with a packed lunch and home made biscuits. If after all I do for him I'm still not enough he can pack his bags. He had plenty of time for strip clubs before me and entered into this contract of marriage fully agreeing to the terms. If I got caught getting a lap dance there would be hell to pay.
My best friend of 9 years works in a strip club and tells me all the stories. Hell nooooooo
I wouldn't want him going in his own for a perv but on a bucks night is ok
I can’t let my husband do or not do anything! If he is going to do something he will do it whether I like it or not! He doesn’t value my feelings about anything so it really doesn’t matter if I care if he goes,he will do it anyway. He has been going behind my back for years. So how do I feel about him going....... It shows he doesn’t love me! If he doesn’t love me then what do I care what he does.
Absolutely!!! If he's got a great body, and he wants to go work in a strip club, that's a great way to earn extra money and he'll be motivated to keep in shape. You should go watch and it'll turn you on seeing other girls cheer him on.
You should never let him go watch girls at a strip club though, that's totally the opposite.
My husband has been to a couple for bucksnights. He came home and told me all about it, he looks but doesn't touch. I'm not the most confident person but this I wasn't too upset about. He mostly complained about the entry fee and cost of drinks etc.
My fiancé wouldn't because he doesn't want me to go to them... even for his bucks night he doesn't want strippers neither do i.... could have something to do with now he see's it as he wouldn't want some guys acting like that to our daughters when they are older. And his cousin was a stripper which turned him off them
Hubby has been a couple of times with mates. He's not that interested. I don't particularly like them - but it's ultimately up to him. I trust him, I just don't get the need to watch women parade around in very little and gyrate on stage for money.
No, I would not be happy about it. I consider it cheating for a married man to go to a strip club. No matter what he tells you he will get a lap dance. He will go into a private room with a nude stripper. He will do everything he can with her as long as he has the money to pay for it.No he won’t think he has done anything wrong. Yes he will be back many times. No there is nothing you can do to stop him.You either accept it or you divorce him.