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If you guys break up I would pack every last bit or food and hygiene product and send it with them or make sure you leave it behind if you are the one to leave.

Everyone should just shave their heads and start anew 😂😘

Im sorry they got paypack now where will it stop? Have they learnt their lesson? Will they now grow up? It is unacceptable behaviour and I would be absolutely worried about future issues. It boarders on a safety concern. What's next poison in food. SMH you should have nipped it in the butt. Your husband should be absolutely ashamed of himself and step daughter.

This situation speaks volumes about the LACK of parenting and boundaries in the house.

If a child works hard and buys themself shampoo NOONE else should be using that and the other.child should be made to replace item used without permission.

Where is the respect? Its lacking.
If the role was reversed dad and sister would be pissed so no different. The SD needs to be punished for stealing. Her father needs to buy his daughter her own products or make his daughter accountable and pay back your daughter. Or she will grow into a thef and never take responsibility for her actions.

Your daughter should NOT have to accept her items used and stolen. You need be parents and punish SD together its unjust and wrong.

Your daughter should not have to pay for SD hair thats wrong. It was her products that were stolen and used without permission. She can add whatever she wants to her peoducts its HER property. SD needs to know if she enters someones room without permission and uses others belongings with out permisssion there are consequences.

If not she will grow up spoilt entitled and not xope in the real world.

So ur job and keep SD away feom your daughters things. And visa versa teach them respect. Make SD pay back for stolen products its only fair if u made ur daughter pay for her consequence for stealing.

Your hubby needs to tell his daughter to stop stealing and stay our of her step sisters room. Its a privacy concern and wrong.

I hope your family can work through this xx

Woah your daughter is ruthless 😂 I love it.
She should be in pretty huge trouble for it but making her cut her hair is too much, I think you should encourage her to stop buying expensive products and save her money for psychotherapy.

Wouldn't she have smelt a difference the instant she put on her head prompting her to rinse it off immediately? Just a thought

Leave him. His trouble so is his kid. Can u trust them now? What revenge will happen when ur not there.i would take my kid and leave

Where is your daughter getting money ?

I dunno man, i tried to dye my hair with bleach in shampoo and it didn't do anything other than make my skin red. So what exactly was your daughter putting into the shampoo?

I think it's petty that your husband is calling for this punishment. I would leave if I were you. Too much drama.

I think your daughter’s reaction was extreme, but how entitled is your SD? And why didn’t your husband step in before it came to your daughter taking matters into her own hands?

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Jerry Jerry

No freaken way! SD stole your daughters stuff and because of that she can’t handle the consequences?? Will teach her to not take things that does not belong to her!

If they then get revenge & sabotage her hair I would seriously file assault charges against them!

Oh boy. It's times like this I wish I was a fly on the wall 😂😘

I’m going to get crucified for this, but this Is what I would do. Cut both girls hair. As a matter of fact shave their heads so they have no hair at all!!!!
No hair, don’t need shampoo or conditioner!!! Step daughter can’t steal it & your daughter can’t add anything extra to it because they will NO LONGER NEED IT!!!!
How pathetic that your daughter can not share her shampoo with her step sister. Who I’m fairly sure is probably not there all the time. Your daughter also needs to be punished for her part in this. She should not get off scott free. They both played a part, they both get punished. What is good for one is good for the other. Cut your daughter hair too. It’s hair, it will grow back.
Then purchase hair products that BOTH GIRLS have to use. They will need to learn to share, rather than both acting like spoiled teenage brats!!!

S.D got what was coming to her. I wouldn’t have even made your daughter pay for the haircut etc. Tell them if they do anything to your daughters hair you will press assault charges. Your daughter can put whatever she wants in products she purchased, no one suggested the step daughter should STEAL them and use them on her hair. Get both girls a lock for their doors (to make it even) so your step daughter can’t take some kind of sneaky revenge or steal anymore of your daughters stuff.

Jesus Christ !!! What do they think you are going to pin your daughter down and cut her hair!
Your partner even contemplating your daughter cutting her hair is a huge red flag!!! If sd didn’t steal it it wouldn’t have happened!
I would have done the same as your daughter. I once put blue Foundant food colouring in my body wash and my house mate squirted it everywhere and stained her skin.
I lived in a backpackers for a few weeks, you know the drill , bit a bottle of milk and everyone uses it! Still happened after I put my name on it in thick black pen. I put loads of laxatives in a new bottle of milk with my name on it. It was half empty by the afternoon. Serves the fuckers that got the shits right!

Your daughter bought the products. Therefore she can do whatever she wants to the products and if that is adding bleach or whatever then she has the right. The SD would have been told previously not to touch those products and the SD again stole the products. So the SD got what she deserved.
I understand it's a difficult situation when theres blended and each parent naturally wants to stand up for their own child but this situation has shown that the adults may not be best suited to parent together because instead of stepping back and trying to work out the fairest decision, you've both gone into battle .

I would tell your daughter to watch out coz her step sister is going to come after her in her sleep with a pair of scissors..my sister had long beautiful nails but would use them as weapons on me. One night I got up in the middle of the night and cut all her fingernails off. Lol, I didn’t get into trouble either. She never scratched me again.

I wouldn’t have punished your daughter or made her pay the step sisters haircut! Good on her I say, tell your husband to man up

Thank everyone!

NO way should you cut your daughters hair. This is poetic justice. SD deserves what she got. Give your daughter a high five from me.

And like others have said - get out! Husband sounds like a dick too.

She should be grateful it wasn’t nair put in there 🤣😂
This all sounds like too much stress though. I would get the fuck out but if you don’t/can’t then don’t let them punish your daughter by getting her hair cut. I think paying for the cut and treatment is sufficient. Your stepdaughter shouldn’t have been invading your daughter’s privacy or taking her belongings.

Hahaha. This is pretty funny. If SD wasn't being a sneaky little thief then none of this would happen. Stand your ground and don't let your daughters hair get cut. Maybe DH and SD will have learned a lesson not to touch things that don't belong to them! Hahahaha.