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Proposing to a man

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Would you? How would u do it?


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4 years ago
So, in italy. I thought it was all romantic and so I proposed (without a ring) he looked embarrassed, and kinda stuttered and ummed and said “ can we talk about this later”
I could have died!
The last two days of our trip was awkward and I knew it was over
We came back to Sydney and parted ways without ever properly having a discussion about it

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4 years ago
Oh sending you a big hug. I was a bit tipsy and proposed to a boyfriend. It was awful, his face was deer caught in headlights. He just changed the subject, we stayed together for a while but I just had to end it, I felt so stupid.

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4 years ago
I had been waiting a few years for a boyfriend to propose, I had dropped a few hints. Anyway on his family Christmas catch up (grand parents, aunts and uncles they weren't seeing Christmas day) I opened my Christmas present and it was a box with a ring in it. I looked up with tears in my eyes, he and his dad were giggling , then I realised it was a coffee cup with the joke engagement ring. I was devastated and it was infront of so many people. He and his dad proceded to start pissing themselves laughing, I just dropping the cup smashing it on the tiles, grabbed my stuff and left.

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4 years ago
Holy hell! Did you ever speak to him again?

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4 years ago
I assume you were living together if you waited a few years for him to ask

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4 years ago
No didn't speak to him again. We weren't living together. I ended up marrying one of his friends.

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4 years ago
You don’t still see him do you? What a douche

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4 years ago
I saw him a few times, but have never spoken to him.

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4 years ago
I hope he never found someone to marry him. Is he miserable & alone?

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4 years ago
I didn't propose, but I did start a conversation about getting married and how he felt about it.

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4 years ago
How did it go?

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4 years ago
He said he wasn't ready, we had been together a few years. I think if I was the one for him he would have known. I moved out the next day.

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4 years ago
Hugs babe. Good for you being so strong xx

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4 years ago
Reason for proposing??
Is he taking too long to ask you so you want to propose instead?
How long have you been together?
Have you both discussed your views on marriage?
Are there kids involved?
Is marriage and kids on the cards?

Provide more detail. But to answer your question No and No

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4 years ago
15 years yes but nothings happen. One child. Yes i want him as my hubby

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4 years ago
15 years , it’s obviously not a priority to him. If it is for you tell him.

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4 years ago
Absolutely not.

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4 years ago
It’s a leap year! The theory is women propose on leap years

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4 years ago
You can bring up getting married without proposing, see what he thinks. You don't have to let him dictate the timeline for everything.

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4 years ago
You only have one life. If you love him, tell him and tell him that you want to spend the rest of your life together, call me progressive but absolutely should you say- therefore will you marry me?

Having a guy kneel made me squirm and literally run, AND it was pretend! (prompted by my friend). I think more women should take the reins and stand up for what they want, not wait. How lucky must a guy feel when the girl says yes, how lucky would you feel if he said yes? Just the same I’d imagine!

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4 years ago
PS you go girl.

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4 years ago
No sorry

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4 years ago
No I wouldn't at all. Call me old school but I wanted that feeling. I wanted my man to propose to me. And he did almost 10 years ago. Good on those who do it, but not for me.