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When my kids were 3 and 4 (now 13 and 14) my husband and I separated. He started staying at a mates place or his parents and he used to come and go. We didn’t tell them for ages that we were actually separated and when we did it didn’t affect them too much. Do whatever works for your family.
Todd par family books..all families are different, this is what works for you. Super simple bit seeing in a book form will help her see it's absolutely normal and you have nothing to feel different about x
.... well she was crushed. And I feel like a horrible mum.
Now I’m thinking about my 4 yo and how to tell her if to make it a actually thing or just casually bring it up.
I figured this was just their normal the were so young when we split they honesstly didn’t notice.
I feel like a horrible mum for clearly not addressing it with my kids and now she is gutted that mummy and daddy aren’t married. Even though she doesn’t even remeber when he lives in the house.