Do you still pay for activities if your income has dropped significantly?
Answered 4 years ago
My husband lost his job, I work full time and we can just make ends meet. He has a daughter from a previous relationship who is an amazing dancer and goes to a couple of classes a week as she is looking to become professional. We were paying $30 a week in addition to child support towards the classes, plus half of travel and costumes etc. It was fine while the classes were cancelled but now she is going back he agreed to start paying it again without discussing it with me. The thing is we literally do not have the money. He has asked to put other expenses on the credit card or skip mortgage payments in order to pay it. I don't know what to do. Fortunately we don't have a credit card anymore and I don't think you can just skip a mortgage payment. He just called asking me to transfer money into his account, but it will mean no food next week.
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Lots of kids cope with missing out on activities.
Would her grandparents be willing to pay for a few weeks or even just lend money?
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Never, ever risk missing mortgage payments. See if your lender will defer payments.
Try not to let her miss out.