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Would you prefer she just ignored you? Locked you in your rooman d pretended you didnt exist?
I hate this too. I had a Step mother who thankfully hated me so there was no chance of her getting in my space but my kids are onto their 3rd step mother and 2 of them have tried this over bearing "I'm your new mum" crap. Neither of them had kids but the one that respected them does have kids, so I think that has something to do with it. I'm also quite certain my ex fills these womens heads with enough crap to believe I'm a shit mum so they feel the need to fill the void in my kids lives. I am now a Step mother myself and I am careful I don't do anything that crosses the line.