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Privacy from kids during sex

Answered 10 months ago

I'm looking at moving house, and most of the ones we are looking at have all the bedrooms clustered together so at least one of the kids bedrooms is adjacent to the main bedroom (in my house now, kids bedrooms are at a different end of the house to the main bedroom).

I'm wondering what people do in these cases to cover the noise and signs they are having sex when there are kids - growing into teenagers! - just on the other side of the wall. Trying to be quiet is one thing, but I'm sure the kids will either work out what is happening and be grossed out, or be curious and try come investigate! (And it was akward enough when our 5 year old once walked in while I was giving my husband a blowjob...)

Sorry if this is a dumb question, I just havent had to worry about this until now!


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10 months ago
I suck him when we are finally alone late at night ,or when kids are at a friend's house. We have done it in various places before getting home. Cinema, restaurant toilet, garage, airport toilet, car. I swallow , always have. I like the tidiness of swallowing

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10 months ago
I give my husband a blowjob whenever I can ,sometimes in the kitchen when the kids are napping or busy in their rooms. I also swallow . Quick and neaty

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10 months ago
In my house we have a reading time where my kids are in their respective rooms. They usually read then fall asleep while we are busy ..
I give my husband a blowjob whenever I can even if that means going back to the kids room to end a fight and come back to finish my business. My kid walked on us once at two yo and saw my head between my husband's legs, walked back to her room and I got to finish what I was doing . That's also why I swallow. Quick and neat

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1 year ago
Keep quiet # 1
Have it when they arent home (school kinder whatever)
Have it in the shower (lock the door)
Wait until they are asleep and have it
Go out into the car or garage if kids are old enough to stay in bed
Plan for special days when you can get a sitter

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1 year ago
We’re relatively isolated from the rest of the bedrooms at the end of the hallway, but there’s still the likelihood of being heard at some point when you’re living in a house with other people. I’m sure our kids have heard us every now and then when we’re making love, but it’s just a fact of life.

My bedroom was right next to my parents’ in a house with uninsulated walls, and I often got an earful. I was repulsed for a while after I heard them the first time, but as I matured I started to feel happy for them and thankful that they still had such a healthy marriage. I eventually even began to get turned on by it, but adolescence is a confusing time. Lol.

Just try to be considerate with the volume and then don’t worry. Before modern times, very large families often lived in one room, so they all probably saw and heard a lot more than we’re subject to. Like someone else said, first world problem! 😊

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2 years ago
Insulate the internal walls for soundproofing or just stop screaming like you're being torn in half. Try a pillow over your face of put a sock in your mouth if you're going off

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2 years ago
Don't put beds against the shared wall. Rooms that share a wall usually have wardrobes on that wall to help with privacy. Teach kids to knock and wait if doors are closed (and show them the same courtesy as they get older). And in general I'd say only have sex once they are in bed, and keep it quiet lol.

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2 years ago
A lock on the door that latches quietly, buy them AirPods or similar, lots of soft furnishings and carpet to deaden sounds. And yeah, keep it down.
They’ll be going out and staying up late in a few years and it won’t be an issue.

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2 years ago
This is what you’re worried about?? Seriously, you need to get a grip. You live in a house with other people, act like an adult, be respectful and keep the noise down. It’s not that hard.

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2 years ago
Jeez, its a simple question, no need to get so fired up...

If you think my question is so trivial, why do you bother replying to it and getting so worked up about it? Get a grip yourself.

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2 years ago
First world problem! 😂