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Would it piss u off if your kids friends mums were reluctant to tell u that their kids got into an elite soccer team
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3 years ago
When it comes to sport a lot of people are super competative. I have discovered over the years that people keep things like trialling for higher levels closely guarded as it's one less bit of competition for their child.
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3 years ago
Sorry everyone. I’m a very private person. I don’t go online much & don’t have much to do with social media, I just needed somewhere to vent anonymously & heard about this website. I do apologise that it doesn’t give you much to go on & some answers have come back a bit nasty & have got it all wrong because of this. All it is, is that we’re fairly new to soccer & have no idea about any of it. The time had come to register for soccer this year & thought we all would be registering together again only to find out that his mates have gone to an elite team. Don’t get me wrong, I’m very proud of them all that they all got on the team I just don’t understand why they didn’t tell me when they knew I would have had no idea about it & I haven’t asked or questioned why cause I think it’s none of my business. Maybe it’s because we’re fairly new to it & my kid probably wouldn’t have made the team anyway. My kids a bit upset that he won’t be playing with all his mates but the good thing is he’s still keen to play. I am now aware of it & have looked into it. You never know, he might try out for next years team. I’ll leave that up to him
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3 years ago
Maybe because you would make it a competition. Maybe they want their kid to have something their friends aren't part of. Maybe its noone elses business friends or not. Either way it is odd you are mad when it doesnt affect you. It has nothing to do with you.
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3 years ago
You’ve got no idea so please don’t be judging, it was just a simple question
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3 years ago
If we don’t know the background it’s hard to answer.
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3 years ago
Then give the complete stroy or you wont get an answer you deem satisfactory.
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3 years ago
Exactly it comes across as a jealous mum who is trying to one up another person and child. Maybe tey didnt want you to copy their child, maybe they dont want to have your child in their group or class. Either way its up to you as the parent to know when things are and investigate. Not other parents to tell u.
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3 years ago
So why answer it if you don’t know the full story? It seems like you think you have figured it out. It doesn’t come across to me that she’s jealous or trying to “one up” another person & child. I think before people get in & have your nasty say, you need to know the facts first & there isn’t a lot there so why answer it?
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3 years ago
No, but it would make me want to self-reflect about why they were hesitant to share such exciting news with me.
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3 years ago
Only if the mums knew about the tryouts & didn’t let you know when the tryouts were on. That’s no fair if that happened
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3 years ago
I think there’s more to this question. I don’t think you’re jealous or making it a competition or making it your business, to me it sounds like you may be having some trouble with the mums, that maybe you don’t fit in & that they don’t include you & your kids. School mums are so high school & I avoid them as much as I can. Hang in there hunny, I understand
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3 years ago
No none of my business what my kids friends do or their family. Are u jealous?
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3 years ago
No it’s not that at all, there’s a bit more to it. No ones business really