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Is it flirting or innocent, what do you think?
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A friend, I've known him for most of my life. He asked me out in high school, but I declined and we remained good friends. Since then, social media has blown up. I mean, it was already beginning then, but now with Instagram, Twitter and Facebook, it's gotten massive. He follows me on all platforms and whenever I post anything, he's one of the first to like it. No matter what it is. He also compliments me when I post a photo with me in it. He is a lovely guy, and I'd like to explore the idea of more than friends. But I don't know if it's him flirting or just me over thinking it. What do you think?
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5 years ago
OP UPDATE:
He spent the night. We stayed up talking til 2am and fell asleep snuggled up on the lounge together. He wants to give us a go. I'm stoked. He's coming back round on Wednesday night. We didn't bone (thanks to the lady who commented that) 😂 but I have high hopes for Wednesday.
He spent the night. We stayed up talking til 2am and fell asleep snuggled up on the lounge together. He wants to give us a go. I'm stoked. He's coming back round on Wednesday night. We didn't bone (thanks to the lady who commented that) 😂 but I have high hopes for Wednesday.
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5 years ago
How beautiful!
Hope you get your happily ever after x
Hope you get your happily ever after x
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5 years ago
I love this! Hope it turns out amazing for you xx
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5 years ago
Awesome update! Hope you get laid on Wednesday 😂
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5 years ago
Bone lady - you're welcome 😊
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5 years ago
Yasss queens yassss! Bumped into him while I was out today and invited him round tonight to have dinner. He said yes and should be here in about an hour. I'm going to see where his head is at afterwards. Woooooo!
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5 years ago
Ooh so exciting!! Good luck, have fun and let us know how it goes ❤
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5 years ago
Yaaaaay!! Pleeeeeease update us!
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5 years ago
So was there hot naked sexy on the dinner table?
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5 years ago
I think it’s his way of saying he wants to be with you by following your ‘every move’
Go for it I’d say if he made the first move and you rejected him he’s never going to try again. He’s obviously waiting for you.
Go for it I’d say if he made the first move and you rejected him he’s never going to try again. He’s obviously waiting for you.
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5 years ago
Men are weird creatures,, they all have their own weird way of telling someone they like them.
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5 years ago
He wants to bone you.
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5 years ago
Haha God I hope so 😉
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5 years ago
I think he is being a good supportive friend. In saying that though all you have to do is ask him. He did at school and it didn't harm your relationship so asking him now isn't going to do damage. He might still be interested.
Go for it.
Go for it.
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5 years ago
Thank you 🙂
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5 years ago
There is only one way to find out. Ask him if he would like to meet up for a coffee. If you start getting vibes tell him how you feel. He will either be interested or he won’t but you will never truly know unless you bite the bullet and ask him.
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5 years ago
Thanks 🙂
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5 years ago
Some people like everything their friends’ post. Do you have mutual friends? Does he like all their stuff too? I honestly wouldn’t read too much into likes on social media.
I think it’s very easy to overanalyse indirect communication on social media. If you’re interested in him, you’re both single, maybe send him a message and ask if he would like a proper catch up over coffee, and see where it goes from there,
I think it’s very easy to overanalyse indirect communication on social media. If you’re interested in him, you’re both single, maybe send him a message and ask if he would like a proper catch up over coffee, and see where it goes from there,
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5 years ago
Thank you. We have a few mutual friends (he's only got around 20 people he follows anyway) but he doesn't like all of their things, nor does he compliment them. It's just me.
I'm meeting him for coffee and a catch up next week so I'll see what happens.
I'm meeting him for coffee and a catch up next week so I'll see what happens.