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Sex Addiction

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I think I have a sex addiction and I don’t know how to tell my hubby. I’m sick of living a lie. We have been married 17 years in a sexless marriage for the past 5 years. I have been having affairs for the last 2 years but my cheating is now out of control. I have my main affair partner and now two others I see every now and then. I wish I could give them all up for my husband but I feel like we are so far gone in the intimacy department there is no return.
I’m struggling being in isolation with him because I just want to fuck his brains out but have no idea how to broach it, I’m also afraid of his rejection.


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2 years ago
I'm pretty sure I have a sex addiction. I could go 4+ times a day. My record in 1 day is actually 18 times. My partner, unfortunately, has a lot of chronic pain and is lucky to go even once a week. Drives me absolutely mental because I'll have sex tonight and go to make a move tomorrow and he'll get annoyed and tell me "you got it last night, go away." Just end up feeling rejected and now he complains because I don't ask for it anymore and he has to initiate every time. Well every time I do I get told no so why would I bother. I sometimes wish I was the sort of person who could have an affair just so I could get some, but I couldn't hurt him that way either so I'm just stuck getting next to no sex and going insane and can't leave because other than the no sex thing he is an incredible partner and father and I couldn't do that to us. I know to some people once a week seems like heaps and really healthy for a normal relationship, but to me it may as well be months or years in between 😔

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2 years ago
Aww I feel for you. I would be so sore if I played that often. I guess for me it’s that I think about sex way more than I should. Just be careful it doesn’t destroy your self esteem. I’ve been in a bad place mentally with my hubby over the rejection but I’ve almost come to terms with it now I think of him more as a cousin. I also saw a councillor who helped immensely.

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2 years ago
If hubby has a porn addiction, buy yourself a symbian and get yourself a porn addiction, then.

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2 years ago
I actually asked for a sybian before I started having affairs. It’s still on my wish list.

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2 years ago
What is that?

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2 years ago
The best way to describe it is a sex machine. It looks like a saddle that comes with different dildo attachments that you can ride. Look it up on pornhub.

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2 years ago
I masturbate about 3 or times a day

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2 years ago
4 times* Once or twice before I get up and then at lunchtime and then before sleep. Don't care of my husband knows

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2 years ago
You need to tell your husband. Don't be so gutless

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2 years ago
Why dont you just fk his brains out then? Just do it.

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2 years ago
If only it was that easy. We have major problems when it comes to intimacy. He has also told me his just not interested in sex.

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2 years ago
This is so interesting. Why do you think you are afraid of his rejection ? Is he a cold person?

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2 years ago
My husband has a porn addiction and would reject me for porn. There is no affection in our marriage. I probably should have left before I started cheating but couldn’t leave my family and hubby and I make a great team otherwise. But things have seem to have spiralled out of control for me now.

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2 years ago
Just give him the night or his life and every night after that.