I spoke to my daughters bully one day. I had had a gut full of her stealing my daughters lunch, hiding her school books, she even snuck back into class after school one day of open night, took all my daughters books off her desk and hid them so when we went in to school there was nothing to see. She took my daughters jacket and hat and hid them. Would you believe they were found seven years later jammed down the side of a cupboard. Anyway, teachers did nothing but tell my daughter to try and stay away from her. Went to pick her up one day and a mum said my girl was crying in the classroom. It was the bully’s birthday and she was giving out popcorn to the kids but told my girl she couldn’t have any. I walked into the class and loudly but nicely said “ why can’t my girl have any”. Everyone turned to look. The Kid started trembling and said she can. So I told my daughter to take some. Then I leaned in and said leave her alone. She never annoyed my kid again. The teacher smiled at me. I guess my point is sometimes you get so frustrated because your kid is getting hurt and no one will help. Maybe your daughter had been hurting this other boy for a long time and this was the final straw for the mother. I agree she should never have approached your daughter the way she did, but sometimes you feel you have to do something when no one else will.

I would have the school facilitate/mediate a meeting with you, her and both children. Put a stop to any issues immediately.

I asked a child to stop taking my child's belongings, saying it in a nice way, that it was not very nice to do and it was upsetting her. I actually like and care for this child, but she has issues and the teacher despite many parents raising it, was not interested in putting any extra effort into her job in general. It's really upsetting when your child is being bullied and it's a community to be able to help patent.bit I get your blood boiling too. In our situation every child was saying it was this child, but the lovely parents just couldn't believe it even when I told them I'd seen it with my own eyes, the child's voice was more believable..which I get but then again I don't.. They naturally were defensive. I've learnt that parents sometimes have no idea what their kids do, it's just the way it is.ejen I was a hold I would do a lot of stupid stuff..god I'm ashamed looking back. I feel like this child will feel the same when they grow up.

A mother stormed into my sons year one class and started yelling at my son for spitting on her daughter. The teacher stepped in to stop her and said my son would never do anything like that. She pointed her finger in my sons face and she was coming after him if he ever did it again. I made a complaint to the principal. Apparently she stormed into several classrooms that day accusing several blonde boys because that’s how her daughter described the boy.

Id be furious about this. Speak to your principle or deputy, they will sort it out.

No. I'd never approach a child about an event that happened previously.

I'm a bit hypocritical tho as an older student called my grade 1 ASD son a disgusting name in front of me last year (didn't see me I think). I looked him in eye and said calmy 'excuse me, can you repeat that? No? Do it again I'll be talking to the school and your mother about it'. I couldn't just walk away from him saying it right in front of me & letting my son think it was ok for someone to speak to him like that. I didn't approach, tho (he was standing on stairs above us). We then walked away. Little coward looked petrified he'd been caught out & didn't go near my son again.