I feel depressed. Someone just suggested my hsb get his own fb page instead of sharing mine. Then some of his friends liked the post. I look like psycho controlling bitch wife.

Of course we share because he cheated im sure that's obvious to ppl well i thought it was. He joined countless dating sites via fb and had online relationships, fuck buddies, swapping pics buddies, online flirty friends, u name it he did it. Cheated in 'real life' and ive got the herpes to prove it. I never asked him to delete his fb as didnt want to control him but he chose to as the girls kept messaging once he was trying to behave....i.e once i found out. He has slipped in various ways during our whole marriage and my therapist thinks he has an online sex addiction and sharing a fb keeps him from temptation. I hate that ppl think i am preventing him from being independent and nervous as hell now that he will take their advice and get his own page. Im too old and too tired to worry about his cheating anymore if he does open a page i will say that's fine but we need to separate i seriously cant live with the worry of when he might slip next. I do wish i left him back when but i was so traumatised from my abusive ex i had no self esteem and thought i wasnt enough for him. Ill never ever trust him. If we break up i never want another relationship, between him and my ex i don't think i could take anymore. I dont believe there are good honest kind men. Feel like crap now its all on my mind again too ive never done anything to hurt any partner, nice people just get used and abused