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My daughter has been accused of being easy cause she slept with 3 guys in 5 months and the one of the guys slept with 9

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My daughter has been accused of being easy cause she slept with 3 guys in 5 months and the one of the guys slept with 9 girls in 4 weeks
How do I help my daughter feeling terrible about herself ?

We live in a small country town of 600 people


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5 years ago
Maybe she should stop sleeping around. You could be asking readers how to best educate her on this subject instead

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5 years ago
You're an idiot. So you're saying a female isn't aloud to have relations with 3 men while she's young but a man sleep with as many as he likes? It's people like you that put fuel on the fire and keep spreading the gossip and re lighting the fire when the gossip as died down.

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5 years ago
Allowed not aloud

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5 years ago
^responder never condoned males sleeping around either!

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5 years ago
You should be able to sleep around with whoever you like! And not have stupid cunts talk shit about it!

In this case, I would suggest she works on becoming resilient! People are nasty and they like to have a say in other people's business. If she is having healthy, consensual, safe, sexual relationships and is of legal age, and she's not being a home wrecker, that's perfectly acceptable!

Who is anyone to tell her she can't explore and express her sexuality in healthy, safe ways?

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5 years ago
She was asking how to handle the situation about her daughter not the boy. Idiot or not, any responsible parent would not allow this kind of behaviour. Wait till her daughter gets called the town bike then see what your comments are. It's irresponsible people like you that teen pregnancies and STI's are at an all time high. Asshole

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5 years ago
The only idiots here are the ones who condone this kind of behaviour

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5 years ago
Responsible parents teach their children safe sex, and openly talk about it!
Well educated children are less likely to get themselves into situations without being prepared.

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5 years ago
Get her a f ucking massive dildo.

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5 years ago
Feeling terrible is the natural price you pay for sleeping around. Hopefully she will learn and grow from this experience and make better choices in the future. You can’t help that she feels bad now, but you can encourage her that she can choose differently in the future.

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5 years ago
Well said ❤️

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5 years ago
Say WHAT?!? 5 likes?!??! Being a b$*=ch is a natural way to show everyone that you are an insecure loser

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5 years ago
No, no, no! Stop shaming females into thinking their sexuality isn't normal

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5 years ago
Unfortunately mud sticks. She will have a reputation now that will be almost impossible to lose.
I would suggest she doesn't sleep with anyone for a very long time. It'll only be sharks circling for a while. Its be a good idea for her to work her butt off to do something worthy and admirable which is something she'd be proud to be known for. Find something she enjoys and nail it.
There is also the deeper issue of why she slept with 3 boys at her age. She might be craving love and attention.

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5 years ago
Or hmm biology!

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5 years ago
Exactly! What were you doing at 16??? I guarantee you it was biologically driven

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5 years ago
There is nothing wrong with having safe, healthy sexual relationships. I'd be making sure she is practicing safe sex. Unfortunately we are a long way off of females being able to have many sexual partners and not be deemed easy or a slut. Double standards sadly.

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5 years ago
I couldn't agree more. But... the daughter in this regard is a 16 year old.
There is nothing wrong with one exploring their sexuality in safe and consensual ways but in my opinion 3 sexual partners at 16 is concerning. I hope she is practicing safe sex

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5 years ago
Yes, I wish I was more open myself. If my daughters become fiery girls who are able to satisfy their needs wiithout being worried about being shamed, I will be proud of them. I had opportunities to meet great guys but always was uptight out of fear.. I look back and think.. what a shame. Thank goodness I got to Europe and had a bit of exploration there

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5 years ago
I see your point, most of us feel that is too young, but 16 is still legal age. And think back to what you were really don't at 16!!

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5 years ago
How old is your daughter?

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5 years ago
16

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5 years ago
The actual fuck. You’re daughter shouldn’t be sleeping with anyone. How can you condone this

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5 years ago
16 wow. You didn't mention in your question how you feel about what she's doing. I'm sorry but it almost sounds like you are bragging about her accomplishments

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5 years ago
I had 3 kids when I was 18

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5 years ago
Yup I live near a 24 year old with 7

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5 years ago
3 kids at 18. What a derelict. That’s not something to be proud of

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5 years ago
How is that not something to be proud of??? Having 3 kids at any age is a blessing

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5 years ago
No it isn’t!

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5 years ago
And? I slept around at a young age and yes do regret some of my choices but ended up with my now husband at 15, having a kid together at 17 put us on a good path! we both grew up in houses that made us not even think we would have the life we do now. And a lot of people that meet their partner young and have only been with one person end up having affair because they are curious about what they missed out on, I know I'm not missing anything.

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5 years ago
Yes you go girl. Sadly, we woman are really our worst enemies.. there are many different paths to take in life, it’s sad that so many are brainwashed and likely unhappy

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5 years ago
That little 15 year old dude must have epic game. I can't judge your daughter, I was a massive teenage slut myself but she really should just cross her little legs until she moves to the big smoke and then she can fuck as many men as she pleases. Small towns, small minds.

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5 years ago
Love this comment. I was a little tramp too when I was a teenager. Who cares, each to their own. Leave the small town and get on tinder girl friend

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5 years ago
I grew up in a small town and found once you have had a few boyfriends you get a reputation, even if they were long term relationships. If you live in a small town it's just what happens. People won't forget, but someone will do something else and the gossip will change. Definitely listen to the advice regarding the Sharks circling, she really needs to stay away from boys for a while. If she doesn't want to live in a goldfish bowl she needs to plan to move out the are once she has finished school.

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5 years ago
This can't be a real question

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5 years ago
Don't listen to these people. At least your daughter is comfortable enough to talk to you about it. Be proud. You have brought her up perfectly.

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5 years ago
She really needs to learn that you cant sleep around in a small town otherwise she will never hear the end of it. People in small towns are generally bored and narrow minded that to talk about other peoples business. Hell, half the town has probably been told she slept with 30 guys.

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5 years ago
Couldn't agree with this more. Small towns exaggerate stories. They find the best gossip and ruin with it and unfortunately it sticks to them for a long time.

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5 years ago
Boost self esteem. This website is buggy when typing but I believe it’s the ads - get your web developer I turn them off if typing in comments