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What would you pack for a weekend away with your BF who you been dating 6 months

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It has been a long time since I been in a relationship let alone away for the weekend with someone


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4 years ago
Nothing but a smile

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4 years ago
Haha love this!

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4 years ago
hehehehe

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4 years ago
Just curious, what sort of industry is your BF in where he works 6 days a week 12-15 hours a day and on calls? Will he always work these sorts of hours? It's concerning that he works so much and isn't able to see his children regularly and I'd be worried that he won't have enough time for his kids and a relationship. I'm not meaning to be negative, maybe just keep it in mind. I hope you have a great weekend away x

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4 years ago
He normally would get to see his children on a regular basis it is just his work location and contract has changed and as the manager he has had to adapt to the situation, he is even working today god love him despite finishing at 1am this morning, I do know once things settle down it will be easier we have chosen to take things slow due to this being a first relationship for both of us after a long period time

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4 years ago
Buy new clothes

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4 years ago
Anything specific you would buy besides lingerie, this will be the most amount of time we have spent together due to his long working hours looking forward to the quality time and break

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4 years ago
It is two days so I would buy new clothes. Having something new and nice to wear helps with confidence and he will notice. Dress appropriately- find out where you will be going and what you are doing.

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4 years ago
I think you may be over thinking it.

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4 years ago
Curious why do you think I am overthinking it, to date we have only had about 3 hours a week together with numerous, text and phone calls cause of his extra long working hours since we began dating. He has seen me in the occasional dress, but mostly sees me wear ph shorts and singlet so was looking for clothing suggestions as I said I haven’t really done this type thing before despite being 35


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4 years ago
Men don't care about things like that. You need more confidence in yourself. Good luck get the feeling you might need it.

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4 years ago
Why do you get the feeling I might need luck

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4 years ago
He is currently working 6 days a week but is also on call on his day off, I have been to his house and he has his mum living with him currently due to loosing her house to bushfires in January this year

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4 years ago
Lol i love how you wrote a response to a question that wasn't asked by me.... just have some faith in your choices. Have confidence, men love that. I always had more power in relationships when I was really confident in the bedroom. Dominant him let him know your in charge.

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4 years ago
Have you previously posted you going away for his birthday? If so You seem super invested in this.
Relax!!! Over thinking every fine detail you may scare him off! 3 hours a week, he could have a whole different life you don’t know about yet, he could be married with 6 kids. Chill out , it’s early days 😁
In saying that
If you buy new cloths purchase stuff you feel comfortable and confident in , not just stuff you will think he likes.
I would pack two going out outfits =a dress complete with matching shoes (that are not new... who wants to wear shoes in on a date) and something more casual.
Exercise wear & shoes to throw on if you pop out for a walk and two outfits to lounge about in.
Personally I would buy 3 matching underwear sets and 3 extra panties for each set from H&M or big w, if you only have a bra on for an hour pre sex you still might feel better putting fresh knickers on, I know I do 😁
A nice soft spaghetti strap nightie , no over the top lace and silk , something to pop on after sex, wear a bra with it if you are walking around & any more than an A cup lol
Wash your hair and do a treatment before hand so you only need to wash your hair if you get cum in it lol
A light perfume, make up and toiletries.

Buy some magazines (No home and garden wifey shit, no that’s life... vogue or gossip mags, gossip mags make good conversation) and a game of uno and a shit load of snacks... Don’t ask him for snack ideas, just wing it and buy loads . Leave them in the shopping bag so you can casually grab them in the times between shagging , sleeping & going out for food. Any awkward quite moments between bonking can be fixed with snacks, uno and magazines... leave your phone alone! Keep it on silent! Did I say stay the hell off your phone?

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4 years ago
Awesome post! Totally agree!

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4 years ago
I have been a long time reader but first time poster, as I said in a comment further down this is a big deal for me I don’t even go infields weekends away as I have no one to go with, I was just looking for clothing suggestions ect, not snarky bitchy comments

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4 years ago
Oh & I forgot ... don’t get drunk drunk , drinks is fine but don’t overdo it , hangovers waste good sex time

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4 years ago
I can't see any snarky comments I think you may be a wee sensitive.

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4 years ago
First off as I said I had been a long time reader on the forum first time poster, just because we only get to see each other 3 hours a week currently dosent give someone the right to assume he has another life, fact is he has been working really long days between 12-15 hours if he isn’t at work he is sleeping, I know he has 2 young kids who due to his working hours he has seen very little of which is affecting him greatly the fact I get to see him 3 hours a week I am great full for

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4 years ago
I was the op of this comment. I was not being snarky just trying to be helpful. I have dated a lot and been on many weekends away with dates and friends.
I have also dated a few that I found out that they were married with kids and I was sometimes one of several mistresses hence those comments.
You have spent a total of 72 hours with this bloke, relax and enjoy getting to know him. A weekend away sounds like a good idea so you can get a proper feel for each other 😁
Have fun (& definitely stay of your phone while away, I totally think that’s a common mistake made when dating, being distracted by your phone and don’t post 1000 photos on social media, leave that for when you guys get more serious... just my opinion)
Do what ever blows your hair back... hopefully he does 😁😁😁

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4 years ago
We must have replied at the same time. I am sorry you seem quite upset by my comments about the other life. I have dated heaps both sides of technology having a huge impact on dating, it’s so much easier to get away with that crap these days staying in contact with everyone is so disconnected. It certainly has the advantages of extra ways to meet people but definitely has its flip side.
I type as I am thinking just as I speak as I am thinking. I probably should have just stuck with the tips 😁 I thought they were pretty good lol

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4 years ago
If not seeing his kids affects him so much why isn’t he spending the weekend with them? Possibly an excuse for when wifey and the kids call often during the course of the weekend.
3 hours a week? So you have never actually spent the night with him? He could easily be telling his wife he’s working long days & late as well. Have you been to his home?

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4 years ago
You don't need ro justify yourself OP of the comment. I reckon it was spot on and not snarky :)

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4 years ago
Hello OP
You sound very anxious so hoping this will help.

Pair of flattering jeans paired with a super cute top and a casual type jacket that u can put on when it gets cooler, match with ballet flats or sporty type shoes
Evening time you can throw on a pretty floral dress paired with stockings ankle boots and a denim jacket
Basically plan your outfits beforehand so you dont end up taking 3 suitcases lol
Pack for the: incase it’s hot, incase it’s cold, incase we swim, incase we go for a walk.

Good luck I’m sure you’ll have amazing time getting to bond a little more together.

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4 years ago
Be comfortable, nothing worst than being cold/hot/sore feet/general figity and not being able to just change into other things. Just pop some make up and perfume on, do your hair, even if just lounging around you’ll feel sexy and confident.

Sexy knickers, also something comfortable and warm to wear in bed after. Again nothing worse than waking up at 4am freezing your sexy ass off and not being able to change 😁

Comfortable shoes for any exploring you want to do.

Just be comfortable. Many a weekend away I spent in my 20s away with boyfriends in super hot outfits and shoes but absolutely miserable because skirt kept riding up, I was cold, feet got wet walking through grass, etc etc. Have fun x

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4 years ago
Yep comfortability is no 1!

Haha or wearing hot sexy tops with chicken fillets but so nervous and got sweaty and those things kept sliding down.

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4 years ago
6 months into the relationship - sexy lingerie, sexy nightie, gstring, makeup, hairbrush, toothbrush and Femfresh

Now with the hubby - toothbrush, old granny one piece nightie, dress that I could potentially wear both days hahah

In all seriousness, be you and bring whatever you would bring on a girls weekend with your mates.

Have a wonderful time and make some beautiful memories x

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4 years ago
Thanks the thing for me is I don’t normally do this type of thing I have never even been on a girls weekend away. So this is kinda big for me

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4 years ago
That is awesome! Well then bring whatever makes you comfortable and feel sexy too.

Maybe massage oil so you guys can give each other a lovely massage.

See if there's any event near where you are staying and go and have some fun. Sit, drink, listen to live music, talk.

Very excited for you :)

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4 years ago
Shave or wax before hand. Pack toiletries, hair brush etc, sexy underwear

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4 years ago
Definitely getting waxed before cause normally I shave as well toiletries and sexy underwear. I guess I am more thinking what outfits to pack to date we have only had about 3 hours a week together with numerous, text and phone calls cause of his extra long working hours since we began dating

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4 years ago
A toothbrush and a g-string. Have fun ❤