Every night. We always go to bed together. If one falls asleep and the other wants to get out they can. But we usually talk and cuddle and have sex and it’s the only alone time we get together so we feel it’s really important for us.

I used to go bed by 930 but my husband would stay up till midnight. If he goes to bed before he’s really tired he lays awake all night so he waits til he’s ready to fall asleep before getting into bed. A cow he works with fell in love with him and tried her best to get him to leave me. One thing she said to him was “ it’s obvious to me and it should be obvious to you that the only reason she goes to bed earlier than you is because she doesn’t love you and doesn’t want to have sex with you. If I had you I’d stay awake all night with you and give you sex whenever you wanted it”. He told me which prompted a discussion. Now we go to bed at the same time, have sex most nights and when we’re done I’ll fall asleep and he’ll either cuddle into me or watch something on his iPad. So, thanks bitch, you made my marriage stronger, haha.

mostly

No and mine gets all shitty about it. It’s alright for him - comes home from work before me sits on the couch, watches his shows, is on the phone and doesn’t move. Then I get home have a shower, prepare the dinner he promptly eats it, then I tidy up sort out anything for the next day and just as I sit down to wind down and relax he then says he’s tired and it’s late and wants to go to bed and what the fuck is wrong with me for wanting to stay up so late... even when I do go to bed at the same time as him if I stay up on my phone too late or he wakes up and I’m on my phone he gets shitty because I should be sleeping... Believe it or not my favourite time is that time of the month because at least for that 5 days I get a little bit of reprieve and he doesn’t have an excuse to be mad at me or say hurtful things.

I'm about 9 and hubby around midnight.

Yes but we're naughty & have a tv in our room. Choices are movie, sex or sleep. It's my favorite time of the day. It's where I get my daily dose of cuddles too.

No

Not often

Generally we do. Sometimes I go earlier and watch something on the iPad. When he comes to bed, I make sure I am awake so we can chat and cuddle. One of my favourite times of the day.

Most of the time

Around the same time but some times I go to bed later if I need to finish something off as Im studying.

We used too. Now I'm pregnant and soooo tired im in bed by 8:30-9 where as he is a night owl. Sometimes he comes and lay's with me till I fall asleep then goes back out to the lounge room or wherever.

Sometimes. Even if we go to bed together generally he goes to sleep and I play on my phone for a while.

Yes. If he is tired he will sleep on the couch til I’m ready to go to bed. He is fifo so he is not home for two weeks at a time

Rarely

No