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I'm 38 and hubby is 37 uncut. Only been with cut before him. What is the norm in your experience Aussie ladies?


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26 days ago
Hubby is circumcised and has been since his teens. It wasn't his choice and he wonders what sex would be like with a foreskin, I suppose he will never know. We have sons and have never circumcised them as just not required. All my previous boyfriends had foreskins so it was a bit of a change when I got with my now husband. I love him so wouldn't change him but I do miss the foreskin for foreplay as the skin rolls up and down but as for sex I actually like him circumcised, it feels good inside as he tends to thrust harder to get more feeling which is good for me. It is always clean so any oral sex is easy.

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15 days ago
I never liked having a foreskin and got myself cut in my 20s. Tell your husband he's not missing a thing! Everything is better cut: looks, sex, hygiene.

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6 days ago
That’s your personal choice…I’m uncut and love the sensations of the foreskin in my girlfriend with gentle thrusting. Both my girlfriends love the feel also, so sorry your husband is ok but is missing the added bonus of not having his foreskin!

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6 days ago
Agree! Uncut is best and thank goodness the majority of Aussie boys are left uncut ! The big problem is that most men and boys are uneducated about the purpose and function of foreskins, most women included! The hygiene aspect is easy to understand as that is normally taught at home and in some sex education classes. However nothing is taught about the functions of the foreskin to enhance foreplay, masturbation and increased orgasmic sensations just to name a few! That is why some men remove their foreskins thinking it’s worthless and absolutely makes no difference. Unfortunately it’s the ignorance of not knowing…

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6 days ago
Agreed, boys and girls require proper sex education that explains all aspects of sexuality. That includes the scientific studied erogenous areas in the foreskin: the foreskin’s ridged band.

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2 months ago
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2 months ago
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1 year ago
My hubbys uncut, with my experience I have been with a mix and uncut has been the norm

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1 year ago
Also in our late 30s, hubby is uncircumcised. I though it was a big thing of the past but reading these comments apparently not. We chose to leave our son uncut

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1 year ago
Uncut.

I can't get turned on by a baby genital mutilation.

Sorry, not sorry.

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1 year ago
What a simplistic and probably silly answer. What if parents decided not to circumcise then the person decided to have it done as an adult?

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1 year ago
My father and four brothers were all intact (not circumcised), I was kept intact too.
My foreskin was used in all kinds of ways during sexual activity, and its inner surface was the most sensitive part of my penis (more sensitive that even the glans). Orgasms were so intense that my body would convulse with waves of ecstatic pleasure.
When I was 19 I had an elective circumcision just to fit in as my friends were circumcised.
Conventional wisdom at the time (which is still around today unfortunately) said that there was no difference between being intact and being circumcised. Common sense should have told me otherwise, but I was young. Following circumcision, the constantly exposed glans dried out and its surface became ordinary skin rather than moist mucous membrane. The surface became calloused rather than delicate, and although the nerves were still there below the surface, the calloused, dry and thicker skin of the glans definitely decreased sensation as well as lack of foreskin full of sensory nerve endings.
Orgasms were still possible of course, but they were not nearly as intense as when I was intact.
Later, I discovered that non-surgical foreskin restoration was possible. I wrote off for the directions and fashioned home-made devices to restore my foreskin and protect my glans again. My glans has resensitised and became a moist mucous membrane once again. The loose skin (which looks very natural and functions surprisingly naturally too) makes masturbation and intercourse easy and more enjoyable for both myself and my wife.
I have two intact young adult sons who are both grateful they were kept that way.
Some men will write in and say it makes no difference or much better after having an adult snip…however many like myself are disappointed and do foreskin restoration. Just be grateful that it’s a god given gift to be born with a foreskin that has a purpose and function…boys,men and women need to be taught about the benefits of a foreskin.

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1 year ago
I am sorry you don't enjoy being circumcised.
As a counterpoint, I was circumcised in my mid-20s and love it.
Some of my earliest memories are of seeing circumcised friends and thinking how much better it looked.
I found my foreskin was an annoyance. Pubic hair used to get stuck in it and when I became sexually active I didn't like the feeling of it rolling back and forth inside my girlfriend. One of us holding the foreskin back during sex was so much more enjoyable. (She didn't care either way.)
After I was circumcised, the feeling was different in a way that's difficult to describe. I could feel my girlfriend's entire vagina enveloping my penis, right down to the base.
I have never regretted getting circumcised, and my girlfriends and partners have only had positive comments.
I'm in two minds about whether I would have preferred to have been done as a baby. It would have saved me having it done later but also I am glad I had the choice.
I wouldn't circumcise any boys I had. I view it as needless cosmetic surgery. But I'd support my son(s) if they decided to have it done..

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1 year ago
Sorry that you didn’t like been intact.Not many men have your problem with pubic hair getting stuck etc. Ever heard of shaving? Most men and even some women like the feel of the foreskin gliding back and forth with those extra sensory nerves.
I guess if your happy good luck! The majority of men love being natural and that’s why it’s important all boys are given the opportunity of remaining natural…

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1 year ago
Hubby is 42 and he’s uncut, been almost 20 years since my last partners and I had an even mix of uncut and cut. Our only son is uncut and we’ve had no issues with him in that department

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1 year ago
Hubby is 38 and cut. I much prefer it.

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1 year ago
I honestly don't know, all other things being equal, how someone can prefer a foreskin over a clean, beautiful, sexy and properly cut circumcised penis.

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1 year ago
Easily, I much prefer an uncircumcised penis over a cut one. They’re both as clean as each other

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1 year ago
Hubby (47) is cut and was done in early teens for medical reasons. Been with a few men before him and he is the first I have had sex with to be circumcised. Never had our sons circumcised though, not really the done thing these days. I like his clean look but wouldn't have a preference. The head of his penis is always out there rather than hidden away.

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1 year ago
My preference is uncut and my partner is uncut

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1 year ago
He’s uncut, my last few partners were a mix with uncut being more common

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1 year ago
Uncut

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1 year ago
American hubby here, cut. Wifey finds it more attractive and easier to take in her mouth. I have nothing to compare it to since I was a baby when it was done, but it seems like the stimulation would be more intense because everything is right out in the open.

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1 year ago
Great that it's more routinely done in the US!

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1 year ago
Your wife is Aussie?

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1 year ago
Yeah I'm seeing an American and he was circumcised at birth. He likes it but I'm unsure and starting to get used to it. I agree it's cleaner smelling for a BJ but handjobs are so much stranger. Sex is good though ;-)

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1 year ago
Do you think you can feel the difference during sex? I know I can, and prefer it to the feel of foreskin.
I know what you mean about handjobs though. They're certainly not easy when the skin is stretched so tightly!

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1 year ago
I actually love how tight the skin is on a circumcised willy when it's erect!

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1 year ago
I completely agree. The tighter the better. Minimal skin movement is great, feels wonderful and looks so sleek!

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1 year ago
I can feel the head more during sex if the guy is circumcised.

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1 year ago
Because the US is full of religious nuts

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1 year ago
My hubby is uncut. As far as I’m aware the men in my family are all uncut. I’d pick uncut as my preference

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1 year ago
I’m in the same boat as you, my family didn’t circumcise aswell and my partner is uncut

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1 year ago
Hubby is uncut, in our 40s with 1 boy of our own. He is also uncut. With my experience I’ve been with more uncut.

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1 year ago
my ex husband was cut but current partner not. There have been a number of times that he has said the part of the skin under the head holding the foreskin on has become sore after sex. I don't understand why as we son't have marathon sex and its not due to a lack of lubrication. When this happens, we won't have sex until its better (4-7 days). just because of this issue which I never had with my ex, I would prefer uncut. Imm in my 40's and want more sex!!

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1 year ago
Been with one cut before. Seems very odd and strange. Every other partner has been uncut

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1 year ago
mid thirties here. Hubby is uncut but I prefer cut if I'm honest.

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1 year ago
Does he know that?

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1 year ago
yes lol

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1 year ago
Poor guy :-)
Would he consider getting it done? Hubby got himself done as an an adult before we met and says it's so much better. I'm thankful because I have always preferred my men sans foreskin!

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1 year ago
he's cut. I'm glad lol

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1 year ago
He's uncut, foreskin will stay in the covering position while he is hard unless it is pulled down. Always preferred uncut

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1 year ago
I'm in my late 30s and have had mostly cut and a few uncut. I prefer circumcised.

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1 year ago
He’s uncut as well as our son, I’ve personally been with a lot more uncut than cut, my preference is uncut

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1 year ago
about 50/50. Much prefer it cut.

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1 year ago
H is uncut, always preferred it, we’re both in our 50s

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1 year ago
My new boyfriend is circumcised. Never seen one like this before. He is 34. A bit different to play with but sex with a condom on is no different. Going on the pill soon as want to be more intimate so will see if it feels and different when we do that. I do like bowjobs now though, so thats a benefit.

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1 year ago
Please let us know what you think (I'm definitely in camp cut, FWIW!).

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1 year ago
Camp cut here too!

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1 year ago
50/50 here, but hubby is cut. I'm happy about that lol

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1 year ago
Cut here

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1 year ago
All my spouses except one have been cut too.

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1 year ago
Lucky you :-)
My experience was about 50-50. I was always a bit disappointed when I got down to business and found foreskin!
So happy that hubby decided to get himself done not long before we met.

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1 year ago
Men certainly don't need the foreskin!

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1 year ago
H is 34, uncut. Our son is uncut and he is 3

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1 year ago
He’s uncut and I wouldn’t have it any other way. He makes sure it’s covering the head before it goes in so I’m guessing this is normal???

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1 year ago
It’s normal lol. He doesn’t like to have his foreskin pulled back anyway so it works out well

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1 year ago
Can't pull it back???

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1 year ago
It can come back easily but we prefer to leave it where it is

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1 year ago
H is like this. His skin will stay up until one of us pulls it back. I let it be Im playing with it so sometimes I won’t bring it back at all

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1 year ago
Yes my husband does that when he is putting it in me, goes in easier he says. He has quite loose foreskin so generally it come out of me covered

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1 year ago
Is this common for many men for the skin to stay up when erect or having sex? The ones I have seen the skin is mostly behind the head when they have an erection or after having sex.

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1 year ago
It should come back when erect, or able to be pulled back easily. Staying over the head is not usual and if it never comes back or is tight you should see a doctor. There are treatments available that don't include circumcision.

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1 year ago
I get a lot more stimulation if the head is exposed!

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1 year ago
I’m 31 and live in Brisbane. Current partner has been partially cut for medical reasons but most guys I have come across aren’t done. I didn’t think it was that popular among my age group in Brisbane but I could be wrong.

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1 year ago
Uncut, prefer uncut, so much easier to play with.

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1 year ago
He is uncut , I have come across cut before but has not been common for me

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1 year ago
Ex was my first cut and honestly wasn’t a fan. Hubby is uncut and it’s what I prefer, 2 girls though but if we had a son he would of been uncut

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1 year ago
Yeah I agree, my husband isn't circumcised and so much nicer. Penetration is a pleasant experience rather than a push in !. I don;t get as dry with my husband as I used to with a circumcised ex partner. I also really like it when I play with my husbands penis because the skin goes up and over the head easily.

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1 year ago
It’s there for a reason lol, my partner is uncut and it’s just that much better. No kids yet thoigh

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1 year ago
H is uncut, been together for 11 years with 2 boys. My experience growing up was almost a mix as uncut being the norm. Cairns QLD
Preference is uncut

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1 year ago
Hubby is uncut, most to all of my ex partners were also uncut. Our sons are intact and while our youngest goes to day care, I find uncircumcised is way more common there.
Obviously uncut is my preference

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1 year ago
Where are you? From the comments here it seems common.

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1 year ago
North qld

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1 year ago
OK, and I always thought cut was more common the further north you went (Tas basically zero!). Maybe not!

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1 year ago
I can imagine cut being cleaner in the tropics!

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1 year ago
Lived with my partner for years now and his foreskin is always clean, I wouldn’t give him a surprise blowjob straight after the gym but any other time without hesitation.

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1 year ago
I'm 35, hubby is cut, but he had it done as a teenager due to an infection.

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1 year ago
Is he glad or sorry about it? Do you care?

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1 year ago
He just wishes it had been done at birth. The doc did a good job with his though, and no complaints from me haha

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1 year ago
Hubby was done as an adult because he wanted to. He had no health issues. We both love it now!

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1 year ago
Interesting! Anything in particular you prefer about it now?

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1 year ago
I posted the previous comment. My hubby had it done in his 20s, before we met.
He says he always hated his foreskin because of the look of it, the feel of it during sex and that it just generally got in the way (apparently pubes used to get caught in it!).
He says that for him there are no downsides. Sex better, looks great, etc.
I have a strong preference for a circumcised guy so I am very thankful he had it done.
We agree though that any boys of ours wouldn't be done and we'd let them decide for themselves, like hubby was able to.

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1 year ago
Perth, Husband (44) is circumcised and sex is better but I secretly prefer uncut for handjobs as much easier to get them hard and play about with.

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1 year ago
I still prefer feeling the head more during a handjob on circumcised lol

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1 year ago
Husband 43 is circumcised, in Melbourne. Had it done 4 years ago after son needed it done. He was the odd one out being uncut in his generation.

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1 year ago
Exactly the same as my hubby, but he had it done at 23.
What do you both think of it now? Better, worse, or don't care?

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1 year ago
I'm 35, my partner is circumcised.

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1 year ago
I'm 35 and my partner is cut. He had it done as a teenager.

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1 year ago
Is he happy being cut now?

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1 year ago
yep. His foreskin was a bit tight, and he couldn't clean it.

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1 year ago
Sounds awful lol!

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1 year ago
My bf is uncut, but before him I'd seen a mix. I'm 32 and from Melbourne

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1 year ago
Any preference? Is he happy being uncut?

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1 year ago
If I could choose, I'd say I prefer cut, but I won't judge a guy on it. BF has lot of foreskin (it retracts fine but can still easily cover the head when erect) and has hinted that maybe having less skin or having it cut would have been nice.

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1 year ago
It's never too late :-)

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1 year ago
It's interesting that even though routine circumcision has fallen out of favour in Australia, so many women seem to have a strong preference for it!?

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1 year ago
I agree. It does seem that women who have both (me included) generally prefer a member without a foreskin! I just find it better all around.

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1 year ago
I wonder if it will make a comeback?!

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1 year ago
Reading the comments here, it really does seem that most women prefer it (although that's not very scientific!).
I know most of my friends and I do, too, but some couldn't care either way. When the girls talk, none of my friends admit to preferring foreskin, despite what they need to tell their uncut partners!
As for it making a comeback, the other thing that surprises me on here is the numbers who have circumcised their sons and that it seems quite prevalent in their circles of friends.
I understood that it was about 10-20% (depending on the state you're in or rural v city) but it seems quite higher than that.

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1 year ago
Yeah, definitely seems like it. I'm in favour of it lol

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1 year ago
36, and mostly been with cut. A couple of uncut guys during uni days. Prefer circumcised to be honest.

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OP
1 year ago
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32 here, only been with circumcised.

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1 year ago
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Where are you from?

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1 year ago
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Sydney

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1 year ago
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Apparently the rate of circumcision increases the further north you go, so that may explain why you've never come across a foreskin!
I'm in Melbourne and it is about 50-50, from experience. I'm in a similar age group to you.

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1 year ago
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I see! Any preference?

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1 year ago
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I'm the poster of the previous comment about experiencing 50-50. I have a very strong preference for circumcision and am lucky I fell in love with a cut guy.
He actually had it done as an adult before we met.
We are both not in favour of doing it to babies. He's glad he had the choice.

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1 year ago
In my 40s and I've had both. I really don't like uncircumcised. I don't like the look or the feel of them during sex.
I'm very glad hubby opted for a circumcision as an adult not long before we met.