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Husband wearing womens underwear.

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12 months ago my husband started wearing women's underwear. He says he isnt gay and everything I have read seems to indicate that alot if straight married men do this. It bothers me even though its not about me and i want to be supportive. We have been married 12 years and I want to just accept whatever is thrown at me and i love him. I dont even really have a question. Just wondering if anyone else has this going on at home cause I cant talk to any of my friends about it


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2 months ago
Yes. Mine started doing it a few years ago. I have seen pics of him wearing them but I don't like it so he never does it around me.
I have asked him numerous times why and he just says it feels nice... I was talking
To his friend who is an escort and we went thru his lingerie and turns out most of the panties were hers. I don't think I can just accept this.

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2 months ago
I been married for 20 years and I have worn panties since I was 5 years old I told my wife and showed her shes fine with it now at first she was like you your husband just likes the way they look and feel

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3 months ago
Hi I'm a Married Man of over 25 years and I wear my own women's style knickers for well over 20 years & wouldn't wear anything else . It all started when I was dating my now wife My wifes
mother you'st to teases me and says what ones are you wearing today and feel my bum . Then 1 time I went to shower in ther house & forgot my change of underwear she simply ask me what I was looking for & I told her & she said you have a pair of mine . They were a black silky feel type with lace panels either side of the crotch . I slipped them on & they fitted perfectly she said I could keep them after that I began to buy my own & I like black & pink & white some with lace . In the end off the Day its only material it peoples minds that's the problem.

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3 months ago
Wow
I’m a man and love wearing women’s underwear and yes sometime a bra when we go out. My wife has bought me lingerie and I buy for her too. I like to wear jeans made for women cause they fit better
Anyway that’s me

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3 months ago
I wear polyester low rise woman's briefs in the hot summer months. Otherwise I wear cotton low rise men's briefs.
The only reason I wear the woman's briefs is they cost about 1/4 of the price and actually breath better than the men's polyester briefs.

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3 months ago
No big deal. Wear whatever you feel comfortable wearing. I’ve worn panties since my teens. I just prefer them.
My wife is fine with it but we rarely share as she likes cotton and I love silk and satin.
I have also wear a bra although I really don’t need to. Mostly just plain utilitarian t shirt and soft cups. It forms my 34 Bs to appear less apparent and I enjoy the sensation.
I wear women’s jeans, shorts and tops that are androgynous looking and not in your face fem. That’s my perspective but Geige, my wife tells me that it’s pretty obvious to anyone that with my style, earrings and light makeup that I embrace my feminine side. I rarely get any comments other that I like your top, bottom, earrings from women or the creepy vibe from men.
After all you just live NOW so embrace who you are!

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3 months ago
I'm going through the same thing. Next month will be 11 years married. I'm not comfortable with it. Trying to be more open minded but it freaks me out. Def not something I can talk to my friends about

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3 months ago
I am a man in the same situation. My wife had the same question| She was advised to tae me shopping, and to hlp me buy my own. Thereby stopping cross contamintion| I didn't mind, it was a nrrrrew experience for me, and I got to choose what I wanted to Wear |
My wife also bought an Extra ?air, they like briefs, and with a bit of sewing, She was able to add a Padlock | She was now able to Lock Them on me ||

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3 months ago
I myself wear panties and on occasion a bra, wife definitely does not want me wearing hers so I bought my own. She accepts it now,by talking on these sites I've found out it's pretty common

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3 months ago
Or it's the same person commenting

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5 months ago
If he's wearing your panties ....I can guarantee he's seeing a working girl who offers a strap on service or even sucking strangers off in public bathrooms. (During his time at work) It's diffinately a sexual thing if you said put on a bra and a slutty little skirt with thigh high stockings he would be keen as...as long as you acted as if you were into it he wouldnt be shy at all...so train yrself to be open minded and non judgemental...im sure he still loves 100% he's just having urges to try new things .sorry but no sugar coating here it's the truth. Good luck

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5 months ago
Wow....that seemed like the most accurate reply in all this i would have never guessed myself but there you go

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4 months ago
Wow. This response sounds like it's come from someone who's been there. Sorry but no sugar coating here either

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4 months ago
I want to wear panties. I used to sneak my sisters when i was 13

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4 months ago
Maried 26 years, I wear knickers daily, it's become the norm, my wife knows, doesn't mind and doesn't question, it's my style choice and doesn't effect anyone else, it may have been a kink at the start but now i dont even think about it, it's just underwear, I just prefer the comfort, cut & feel.

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4 months ago
I wear panties my wife has accepted it and doesn't care so you are not the only one

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4 months ago
My wife actually got me into wearing panties. Now I wear them everyday.

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12 months ago
I am with someone who does this when he gets the opportunity we have talked and like your husband he isn’t gay but my man is bi sexual. In terms of the underwear he likes the feel and softness but ultimately likes the forbidden/naughtiness nature

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5 months ago
I wear women’s knickers , started by wearing my wife’s and she was the one that asked me to put some on to see what they looked like , she just loves it , and yeah I was turned on by how good they felt . I now have a selection of my own that I wear more often than not , and when my wife knows I have them on let’s just say we have a good time .

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12 months ago
My husband has such a sexy bum I wouldn’t care what underwear he wore. As long as he’s a masculine male I wouldn’t care really (but that’s me personally)

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5 months ago
Hun it's the masculine ones that love wearing panties etc the most wink wink

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5 months ago
Had an old boyfriend who used to steal my lacey underwear & put in on pretending to just be funny but I bet he still does it. He was so repressed, living his life just the way his family told him to. I'm thinking it was his way of rebelling against the prison he created for himself.

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6 months ago
I wear women’s underwear too and yes it feels good too and my wife buys some for me too and she likes the feel of it too

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6 months ago
I have to admit honestly I would leave. 12 years, 20 years ... life’s too short and I just think in the end it will lead to other issues and in the end you would of wasted the best years of your life with a confused person who doesn’t know what they want or what’s important.

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6 months ago
I wear panties my wife doesn't mind but doesn't care for it just because a man wears women's panties it doesn't mean he's gay it's the fabric that we love when it touches the skin

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11 months ago
Sexy sounds great to me ! What does wear ?

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12 months ago
Everyone has their own kinks. If you have a solid 12 year relationship I wouldnt let this damage it. If it is a sexual thing for him (and he is honest with you and himself about his sexuality) then it's just his thing...

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12 months ago
This!

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12 months ago
That’s good to hear ! My husband wears my underwear and he also has his own women’s underwear too. I have bought lingerie for him and I think it’s great and very sexy and yes he is a real man too. It started ages ago when he bought sexy underwear for me and then he started to wear it. He wear knee high boots mostly riding style and sometimes gets dressed in sexy lingerie and high heeled boots and wow the sex is fantastic as he really turns me on
Yes go with it’s grest 👍

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12 months ago
I honestly think I would be freaked out too.

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12 months ago
Each to their own.

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12 months ago
I don't see any problem with it. Are you able to tell us what bothers you about it?

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12 months ago
Go with it!