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I masturbate at night next to my husband once I know he’s asleep. Is this wrong?

Answered 5 years ago

Should i feel guilty about it. I know he doesn’t get anywhere near as much action as he’d like. Never done it in front of him. Not sure if he’d like it.


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5 years ago
I do it almost every night. I give him the chance for sex first, if he's not interested I wait till his asleep and enjoy myself.

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5 years ago
For me masturbation is about relaxation. For me sex is more demands on me from the ppl in my life. Don't feel guilty it's your body. I'm sure he plays with himself plenty too and that's ok itsa his body. Let go of your guilt xx

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5 years ago
I do the same thing. Feel guilty about it because I know my husband would love sex. But masturbating is easier, quicker and cleaner.

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5 years ago
That's selfish and sad. Your poor husband :(

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5 years ago
I did this a lot when my kids were young.
Youngest is 3 now and our sex life has taken a turn and picked up for the first time in6 years.

It was a season of young kids nothing more for us.
I have more energy, I’m not breast feeding anymore my hormones are settling and I have more energy for him.

If your kids are young I’d say no issues if it’s been going on a long time and your not having sex at all with hubby I’d be looking to fix things between us .

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5 years ago
I wait until my husband is asleep and go into the ensuite and masterbate. Sex is all about his orgasm. I just go through the motions to get him off as quickly as possible so I can finish myself off later. I would be happy to never have sex again.

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5 years ago
That’s sad

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5 years ago
Do it all the time.
Don't feel guilty.

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5 years ago
You have lost respect for your husband, you should try to figure out what specifically has caused this and talk to him.

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5 years ago
Ah congrats. No one can really answer these questions except you. You're pretty dedicated to wait until he falls asleep I'd crash out myself. Why not just wake him? Do you still love him? Maybe how YOU feel should be the real question.