This lock down has me realising that I have no friends. I have two wonderful children and an amazing partner. The SO is very active on the socials. He has invited me to join a few 'hidden groups' but it it's his play space. He has met a lot of people and is constantly messaging them. I want that for myself - but don't want to be his token girlfriend. I don't want to impede on that space. I want to meet likeminded people of my on accord. But I have no idea where to start.
I'm not good at making real friends and have a demanding job that stops me from joining clubs and starting hobbies.
So how do I do it? I don't even know where to start. Or should I just get over my FOMO and stop being selfish?