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Things I'd like to say to my husband today, but probably won't (feel free to add your own, it's cathartic)

Answered 2 years ago

You get pissed off at me that the house is a mess when you don't help clean it. I was bone tired yesterday, to the point of delirium. So YOU layed in bed and left me to sort the kids out. It was me who got them into bed. Me who cleaned up afterwards (they trashed the living room). Me who even organised your dessert when you decided to grace me with your presence when they were all asleep. Then, when I drag myself to bed, you complain that I don't want to spend time with you?! Then this morning when I'm washing the dishes (I was too tired to last night) before breakfast while you're sat on your ass scrolling Facebook, and I get upset at having to stop and sort our kids squabbles out every 2 minutes: I'm the bad guy? Because I should have done them last night and had breakfast ready by now. Kids nagging me while you get to rest. After I was up all night with the baby. Go fuck yourself. Just because you earn the money, doesn't make me your slave. I'm not your MAID!!


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2 years ago
Put it in a card and mail it to him 😂

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2 years ago
Lol. To my shit husband

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2 years ago
Sounds like my husband word for word.... except dessert. I don't make dessert. He usually buys himself, and only himself, some chocolate or other junk he eats after the kids are asleep.
I have told him how I feel tho and all I get is is that he works all week so he's entitled to some rest. Suppose he thinks I sit on the lounge with my feet up all week and our 5 kids take care of themselves.

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2 years ago
I’d tell mine
“You don’t get to complain about being tired when you CHOOSE to stay up all night watching TV!!! If you’re tired go to bed and sleep instead of sitting up all night and then getting 2hrs sleep before the kids wake up!!!!”

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2 years ago
U need to tell him how he makes u fee eel. Yes u maybe a stay at home mum who is taken cate of financially aka not wprking but you should still have support and a break too. Men dont understand just how exhausting it is.

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2 years ago
Well you're the idiot for making him dessert!! 😂🤣😂🤣

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2 years ago
I wish I could argue with you about that.

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2 years ago
You should actually tell him this

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2 years ago
Maybe I will when I calm down and no longer feel like divorce is the only next step. I know logically it isn't, but I don't trust myself to speak calmly with him about how I'm feeling right now. I'm just going to channel my rage into cleaning and then once I'm done, I'm leaving all four kids with him and going shopping. Fuck him.

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2 years ago
It gets like that sometimes. But seriously sometimes they don't realise how much pressure we're under. Once I calmly spoke to my husband he made every effort to help out as he didn't realise how much pressure was on me. Good luck 🤞

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2 years ago
If it makes you feel better it is a common fact that women do more Housework than men. Women who work then come home and do housework look after kids etc. You are not alone. This is not an excuse just pointing out that you could divorce him and get someone worse.

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2 years ago
I got nothing, I just tell my husband how I feel so there's no resentment. Novel idea huh.