Annoyed at this point.
Answered 3 months ago
My partners been going out so much lately and when he does, I don’t hear from him until he does decide to come home which is late morning or even late afternoon the next day.
We’ve been together for 10 years and he’s always been like this… lying to me about his whereabouts or when he’s coming home. Cutting me off once he leaves the house and comes home when he wants too or sobers up. Although I believe he hasn’t done anything with someone else (or not that I know of) I feel like I can no longer put up with this.
We have two kids together and we both work full time so I do understand he wants to go out and enjoy his weekend. But I don’t understand why it’s so hard for him to just communicate with me? I’ve tried talking to him so many times about this, he’s made promises and never kept it. Always lies. I’m so annoyed I just don’t want to deal with this anymore. Especially when he doesn’t even care about what he does and doesn’t think he needs to explain himself or his whereabouts?
Is this a good enough reason to leave?
I‘ve never had a problem with him going out ever, just the fact that he can’t communicate with me and let me know what’s up. I’ve always held it down for us and our kids… we are still in our early 20’s and I do love a good night out but working full time and having two toddlers the weekend is only enough time to spring clean our house and get our stuff ready for another week and spend time with my babies… while he’s out living his best life 🤦🏽♀️
Have you been in this situation or something similar?
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Just make sure if you leave he pays child support and takes the kids for a decent time so you get time off & he doesn't do things like send their washing home for you to do.
Not to mention he is emotionally unavailable and it’s been like that for many many years.. I have been thinking about how I want my future to be and it’s not like this.
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