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Why do some women hate other women?

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You know the ones, I mean - women that make hurtful, judgmental comments, get involved with married men, backstab, badmouth their own gender. Why are some women like this?


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4 years ago
Insecure no talent they don’t want to help anyone but themselves

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4 years ago
No talent?

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4 years ago
Talented ones are usually very secure in their capabilities and are sharers. Its the less capable who criticise others.

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4 years ago
I think a lot of women's behaviour is innate, we are programmed to want to be the smartest and prettiest so we get the best mate, and pass on genes to create the best kids. Unfortunately it usually translates to being awful to other women in an attempt to make them seem worse rather than making ourselves better. We live in a society that values men over women so we are at a disadvantage, we are judged harshly by men and women, while excusing men for their actions.
The funny thing is if we just worked together we could make the world a better place. We could breed out lazy violent men, and have such easier lives where we are equal, we get paid equally, and men contributing equally at home.
But instead we worry about being thin enough, and having nicer clothes than the next woman. But we sit back, let men make decisions that affect our lives, because we would rather have the boys like us rather than work together.

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4 years ago
This is the most intelligent comment I’ve seen on this website. Nice work whoever you are.

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4 years ago
Sure buddy 👍

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4 years ago
Lol

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4 years ago
So true. I am a female who worked for years in top management and watched women undermine and backstab each other big time.
Especially the ambitious and insecure ones.
We labelled them "queen bees", because they would sting their sisters to death.

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4 years ago
yet on your own post you judge the woman involved with the married man rather than the married man? I don't agree with cheating full stop but it always seemed to be blamed on the woman.

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4 years ago
Yes I did notice that too
We all judge in our own way, we just deem our judgement and poor behaviour either excusable of justified, usually just as the other person believes about theirs.

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4 years ago
I hate how the man gets away like a hero, and the woman is made to feel like shit.

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4 years ago
How does the man get away looking like a hero?

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4 years ago
Jealousy?

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4 years ago
We have to see and meet everyone where their at and the choices they choose.
Everyone is doing the best they can with where they are at.
Including if nasty hateful words can come out of your mouth, even if you feel justified than you yourself need reflection (more so some of the other comments)
But even in your own post there is hypocrisy.

More often than not they are like that because it’s a defence mechanism. We all have them and use them however everyone’s is different.
In the same way someone might react different and become a different way after a certain event to another who might cope better, it’s not to say that the first way couldn’t have happened to you.

If it’s not your sort of people and you don’t have the strength of character or you don’t feel the need to be around them you simply move on. If it’s someone who your forced into the circle of then it’s up to you to be strong enough of character to not let it effect you and your own behaviour.

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4 years ago
*they’re. Haha I can’t beleive how often that’s happening to me as I get older🤦🏽‍♀️
Interestingly it’s something I use to make mini judgements on a person. Time makes fools of us all and my grammar And spelling would offend my 20yo self.
Time makes fools of us all haha. What you judge in others could have always been you had you been given a different set of cards.

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4 years ago
True.

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4 years ago
Hurt people hurt people

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4 years ago
I agree.

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4 years ago
I don't really think there's all good people and all bad people. There's a little bit of bad in good people and there's a little bit of good in bad people. Honestly sometimes it's just what day you catch them on.

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4 years ago
Because they’ve been hurt by other women usually

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4 years ago
I'd say this is a BIG part of it

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4 years ago
Hate young ones that think they look good with surgery and call you old when you’re 40 and think people at 60 shouldn’t drive and anyone over 70 should be in nursing home and over 80 should be dead

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4 years ago
I dont get the age thing :( Im in my 40s and Im friends with people in their 20s through to their 60s. I know its a thing though as some of my friends have said they felt judged on their age.

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4 years ago
Because we are the weaker sex

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4 years ago
Seen plenty of judgemental comments, backstabbing and cheating by men???...

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4 years ago
People can be all different measures of evil.

But OP remember for every nasty bitch there are three nice ones.

Just don't let people get you down.
Just pity them for being so low.

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4 years ago
2 main reasons (imo):
1. People are cunts (someone else pointed this out already)
2. Because we are often conditioned to compete with each other from a young age. It's sad, but true.

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4 years ago
To make them selves feel better.

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4 years ago
Yes, I think this is correct. Some people looks down on others to feel better instead of fixing their own studf

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4 years ago
Insecure nasty dysfunctional - take your pick. I’ve recently cut off a relative who is exactly like this - she thrives on bringing people down, it makes her feel like she’s winning.

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4 years ago
Cause some women are c*nts. Plain and simple

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4 years ago
Maybe you’re on to something...it’s sad to think about though.

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4 years ago
just as some men are ar*eholes....