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So my ex husband of 6 months keep posting pictures of him and his new girlfriend of 2 months and my son. As if they are

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So my ex husband of 6 months keep posting pictures of him and his new girlfriend of 2 months and my son. As if they are a family. I think it’s extremely inappropriate. Do you guys think I should address this with him ?

I don’t care about her but I do think it’s inappropriate for him to post pictures like that


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4 years ago
Not trying to be rude or a bitch but it's very clear you care about her. You sound jealous. There's nothing wrong with that you're obviously still hurt. But it's his Facebook and his life so he can post what he wants. Maybe unfollow him so you don't see it anymore? Might help you to move on xx

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4 years ago
To me I disagree, she is note concerned with her son's photo. I feel the really question may have been discussing when to introduce new partner to child..that said you guys are newly divorceded sounds all very tricky and growing pains from this

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4 years ago
Mind your own business

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4 years ago
Her kids are her business

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4 years ago
Have you got a boyfriend? Perhaps post a picture on father's day of you son giving him a gift, along with a sappy caption of happy first fathers day to a great dad. Then a series of photos of something new eg riding a bike first steps something very family like. Let him see how it feels.

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4 years ago
Don’t do that. He’ll know why you’re doing it and then know he upset you, which he may have been intentionally trying to do. I feel sorry for you. This would break my heart but stay mature about it.

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4 years ago
But its ok for him to do it. I would do something similar back.

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4 years ago
Using the kids as pawns? Way to go 😤

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4 years ago
Another drama llama ex. Don’t take this advice.

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4 years ago
I agree. You'll just be creating more problems

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4 years ago
He’s entitled to a life and she is now part of your child’s life. Get over it and don’t be so petty.

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4 years ago
You can report the photos and fb will take them down.

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4 years ago
Yikes, that would be painful. He's probably doing it partly to spite you... which is clearly working. Stay away from his social media and move forward.

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4 years ago
How did everyone come up with they’re are “family unit” now wtf! The relationship is only 2 months old, they barely know each other let alone creating family photos 🤦🏻‍♀️
Op sorry to hear, I know it must sting.
My ex of over 2 years has moved on we share 4 kids. He’s been sensitive and considerate enough not to flash family photos on any socials. What they do in their home is their business I won’t question it unless it directly has a negative impact on our kids.
If you wanted to rock the boat you could casually mention how it makes you feel uncomfortable. Or hide his posts.
Trust me his probably a typical bloke all he see is a photo with gf and child.
Us women on the other hand turn it into a Hollywood movie: OMG how dare she think she’s his new mum, she better not be reading him bedtime stories and tucking him in lol just an example.
Take a deep breath, ignore the insensitive humans on here. Take care mama x

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4 years ago
^ Not the OP but I love your response. It's like you're in my head 🤣

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4 years ago
Hello you gave me a good chuckle 😂 I promise im not in your head. Currently in the laundry doing load 2680 lol

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4 years ago
Lol. Funny coz I'm doing laundry too. You are in my head 🤣🤣🤣😘

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4 years ago
Lol

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4 years ago
Oh dear maybe I am haha

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4 years ago
What's the problem exactly? Are you embarrassed or jealous that your ex is putting this up for everyone to see?

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4 years ago
child privacy is a valid concern - if that is the concern.

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4 years ago
Haha

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4 years ago
^ I know you accidentally typed haha instead of 'This must suck for you but keep your chin up xx'' Silly autocorrect is always bugging

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4 years ago
Lol

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4 years ago
I think that there needs to be stricter laws around child privacy online for everybody. But technically they aren't doing anything wrong unless your kids are under protection. Your ex is their parent he has equal right to say what happens with his kids.

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4 years ago
Just remember that everyone is laughing at them, Fakebook family with the new girlfriend, his friends probably have bets on how long it will last.

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4 years ago
He is probably trying to upset you, just ignore it.

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4 years ago
Put yourself in his shoes. When you get a boyfriend or girlfriend then I'm sure you'll want to share pics of you all together. This is just a part of life and what happens when you separate. You need to find a way to move on so it doesn't eat you alive

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4 years ago
He's very insensitive but he is within his rights. If you have a good relationship with him you may be able to talk to him. Good luck x

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4 years ago
My ex did the same. They broke up pretty soon after. He agreed not to do it in future relationships until the relationship became more established.
My children were being used for their own agenda of trying to hurt me and 'so I knew my place' - he admitted it after.
I just didn't want my children being on a strangers social media. And she was a stranger. Theyd only met her a handful of times.

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4 years ago
That aounds upsetting. Must be painful to see but unfortunately I think there is nothing you can do. Maybe stop following him on social media.

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4 years ago
I’m sad for you because that must feel awful. Ask him to stop but accept that he may not.

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4 years ago
While it is probably very upsetting to see and hear, they are a family. Your ex husband is within his rights. If you have previously not shared photos of your son on social media and that is the part you are uncomfortable with, you could discuss that aspect of it with your ex, but apart from that, you don’t have a leg to stand on 🤷‍♀️

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4 years ago
You have no say any court will smack you down. Don’t be vexatious.

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4 years ago
You don’t have to like it but unless your son is being harmed by in any way by this new instant family then no you’ve no right to say anything.

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4 years ago
It totally sucks. I get it. But unfortunately theres nothing you can do if he decides to ignore your request to stop.

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4 years ago
Nope. They probably feel like a family unit and he may feel like he wants to share his new happy family with everyone.
It's just you're not apart of that family now.