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How long to get over medical abortion

Answered 10 months ago

I took the pill Christmas Night. I am 41 and have 3 kids and panicked, my husband has been very cold, we need to move and I am not working, I have a 18 month old who is yet to sleep through night although during winter he had severe bronchial, so it's been a full on year and I had post natal depletion and anxiety - taking minerals and doing a low carb diet to help, and stopped breastfeeding, we screwed up one night, used withdrawal. I now feel so horrible, I did this, I justified I need to get a job, how do people afford 4 kids if the mother doesn't work and father isn't on super high income... Anyway, today my mood and hormones were all over but am fine, the bleeding has lessened. I feel it was all up to me, my husband refused to discuss it


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10 months ago
I’m confused... did you have a confirmed pregnancy and have an abortion? Or did you take the MAP?

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10 months ago
I don't think it matters either way. OP just needs support. Feel better soon, OP xxx

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10 months ago
One is a termination, one is the morning after pill. Quite different shrug 🤷‍♀️

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10 months ago
And why do you need to know the ins and outs of what, specifically, OP has been through? Would it change your response to her....?

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10 months ago
No actually there is an abortion pill that you can take yourself in early pregnancy

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10 months ago
I feel bad for you. Hopefully things start brightening up. Chin up and keep on truckin'! You have perfectly reasonable grounds and in all honesty it's your choice. You'll be okay, just remember all the awesome things about your life 😊

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10 months ago
I’m sorry that you are going through this. I hope you start to feel better soon. Sending you hugs xx

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10 months ago
Life sucks, especially for woman. You did what you had to do.

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10 months ago
Hugs to you! It is such a difficult decision to make. I have four children aged between 1-7 years. It is very difficult to manage. I constantly feel bad for not working. The struggle is real. And financially tough.
Sounds like it has been a stressful year and hope you have a better year ahead.