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Leave. You are hurting. Your kids are hurting. It will only get worse as her boy gets older. Leave and take care of your lovely little family ( yourself included). You might find your sleep improves with less stress and worry. Good luck to you.
My experience is that when things are like this, they do not improve. Best thing I did was leave, and I regret not doing it years earlier.
Babe, she sounds like a straight up C**T - Leave, find somewhere and someone who will treat you and your kids (ex step-daughter included) She sounds selfish and mean. Run babe, dont walk.
If this were a woman saying this, 100% of ladies here would be telling you to go seek help.
If you're the same poster who's asking about the wife prioritising her son when he's around, and also the same one who asked a few weeks ago about the wife who thinks grown men shouldn't be around their teenage stepdaughters, then the resounding response each time has been LEAVE HER. Stop asking anonymous message boards what to do because you're getting the same answer each time when it comes to this woman.
Leave her. She is not taking your illness inro account or your feelings and needs. She is selfish and you deserve better
Do you drink coffee after 3pm ?
Are you on social media In bed ?
Are you cheating on your partner ?
There was an insight episode on this a month ago, perhaps look into it? Also parenting is horribly tough at the best of times, so this sounds really sad. My husband and I have an agreement that one weekend day I take the kids and the other he does- this involves wakeup to bed put down(except with the youngest and everything in between). After aonth it's getting better and better as we both get guilt free time, but it's strict, there is no day changing or bothering the other person two ways.. perhaps this could help you guys..as a mother with no extended family this has been so good for me to do what I need for myself..hope that helps